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2010年9月30日星期四

Why am I not princess!

When I was a fantasy someday become homeland. Can put food, can wear beautiful clothes, what is what you want. But the reality of cruel gave me answer: it is always fantasy.

Originally thought in the marriage can make your life has changed, but found that fantasy is so beautiful, is now so cruel!

Since then I have no illusions, began to complain of your own destiny, began to hate myself. Bad temper is becoming more and more. Don't speak, don't laugh, even though sometimes laugh so happy before nor a...

2010年9月28日星期二

Interpretation of love password, drawing Mate a blueprint

Mate is essentially how to seek the will of God one of the subjects , we can not in great detail speak how to seek God's will . But there is an important principle , that is, if this thing is with the two people related that God will at the same time move two people , not only touched one person. So unilaterally say, "God touched me that you have to marry me, " this is wrong. There is a saying to say, "It is unable to extricate themselves apart from the teeth as well as love . " Get out both sides of , no one own dared to pull their teeth, the person unable to extricate themselves apart from the teeth as well as love , because we are all longing for romantic love .

In this Zuoge game , here are 10 right and wrong questions , you get a piece of paper to see if your answer is yes or no , I read a sentence and then you say phrase words the right or will not , you make a Practice. True Love True or false:
A love at first sight is possible.

Dichotomous variable love and infatuation is not difficult to .
Three really love each other people who do not clash.
four after marriage Relatively easy to change the other .
Five men and women fall in love in a timely issues will not affect their relationship.
Six rather marry the wrong person than not to marry well.
Seven if the two fall in love premarital sex does not matter.
Eight love each other men and women will be able to forever .
nine The honeymoon period of not more than to six months for the best.
Ten young than adults know better true love .

These 10 subjects did not know which you have few is option a few is a choice wrong? I want to publish the answer myself! Answers are all NO, is the right comes to love marriage . that Maybe you heard will say right ah ! there are some I think quite reasonable . It is called paradoxical , so we one by one to share with you explain , if you these answers find out , you will have a correct and healthy marriage .

We mention first is love at first sight is possible, in fact not , the problem that many people naturally say yes. it as the My wife saw I count not first sight do ? Saw each other on the phone , like , of course, possible, but not limited to this point , but also continued to the back of development. Because we are down to the show which will be mentioned, love including the four levels of , a love the flower which includes four petals of , we have at first sight only a passionate love . Is love, not wrong, but only love one of them , like this is not complete enough. Therefore, love at first sight it is possible to , yes, but alone love at first sight is not enough . The correct answer is that , if development the long-term stable , the need for spiritual exchange with the coexistence of a variety of experiences, alone calls and sparks is not enough .

The second false: sub- braid true love and infatuation is not difficult . It is not easy, obsessive that to grab mind some of the features , and then blindly to focus and strengthen the the kind of intense feeling of love ( he was cool , she was very beautiful, her body very well ... ... .) Even if men and women the relations between 【 rival law 】 will not be tolerated the fact that obsessed who he did not care , people obsessed with often their own believe they have found true love, it is not. So to be a good resolution what is love , what is the fascination, the best way is to know what is true love , not that obsessive .

The third false: true love will not clash. This is clearly NO, true love of men and women is hard to avoid conflicts , in fact, conflict is not necessarily a bad thing. as we have Southern California for a long time no earthquakes , geologists on the nervous, if some small earthquakes , they are the happy, because formation have been their the energy of released , and it will not suddenly come to a big earthquake. Conflict is not necessarily a bad thing , the conflict let us know our problems where , on the issue of where the other touchy thing is, I get angry easily things are. Properly resolve conflicts and establish an effective communication mode of is to establish and operate any interpersonal relations very important part of , between men and women communication of course even more so we love is not no conflict, but know how to resolve the conflict.

Fourth, false: after marriage easier to change the other . Too many cases have proved that we want with a marriage to change the other is unrealistic , if even in love both sides are usually more willing to please the other when is not easy to change , until the birthright has been set , that even 【 wishful thinking 】 , So choose the object first determine your whether to accept each other even after marriage is not easy to change the personal characteristics with the behavior, do one consideration, do not think that their marriage I'll slowly change the other , that will be thoroughly disappointed.

Fifth, false: men and women when in love, even if there are problems will not affect the relationship. love when Perhaps some of the problems can temporarily aside , to the marriage , in peace living together , small problems will become intolerable big problem. We have repeatedly stressed in the pre-marriage education with the counseling is unmarried men and women required courses , marriage more than preparation, marriage, less fatigue , is the so-called "prevention is better than cure . " today, There are many marriage problems , is and marriage on both sides not enough understanding , the temerity to marry a close relationship. Premarital counseling is really important , because in pre-marital counseling sessions inside to help the two sides from the various aspects of to know more about the two sides of the strengths , weaknesses, each other's fitness, they will be able to re- think in the end they fit.

2010年9月26日星期日

How to Understand spouse before marriage of infidelity the issue ?

in a church What happens : a Christian husband and wife wedding night , the brothers found his wife Bing not a virgin after sad , very disappointed that she was not " chaste . " wife to his Confess everything , Bing explained that she believed the Lord before had other boyfriends Bing premarital sexual misconduct experience. However, a Christian , she has repented Bing learned self-love , not physical crime. However, she and her are now husband contacts , I feel he is too conservative , afraid not accept her past , so dared not and he say ... ... but the paper is smoke there's fire , and it was exposed , who brothers how also heard Do not go in his wife's explanation that he was deceived , but also consider themselves very conservative , unwilling and "non- virgin "marriage , then divorce . He said he tolerate could not she was not a virgin it , but could not bear to she hide and think it will affect their life , even if reluctantly together, my heart will have a pimple , not as soon an end forget . So, according to the Bible the teachings of , this situation how to handle ? Husband to lift the marriage relationship, or should be tolerant and understanding ?

Niuyuenanta Light Baptist Church , director Gu Qiwei Pastor answer :

Dear reader, this of Christian couples can be a hundred years He Hao are to be congratulated for the good things . But their combination is worthy of discussion of the details.

First, the brothers love change overnight , and the surface is because of his wife's former not chastity result also shows that brethren the conservative , but is too narrow the idea lead him from one extreme to the other extreme , that he In of marriage view of the immaturity .

The second , in fact, first from God the perspective of , the world is a sinner , are contaminated with world filthy , including this believers couple , including , are against God , to offend people, sins against his own body parts , so we need blood of Jesus Christ Cover the and forgiveness. Even if the brother knew his wife had a bad past , it should be from the heart forgive her, because it was her ignorance committed by , not to mention God has forgiven her sins. Husband should from God forgive the sinner 's perspective to love his wife.

Third, for the sisters , they should understand that love should from the friends Friends of Scouting start , should know this. There are believers to each other friends early , particularly lay marriage before in the with each other normal dealings of natural to explain their love history and experience, the other party 's understanding and trust. Here is a confidence problem , and if she bravely face this difficulty, tears of repentance , the Holy Spirit can move each other to forgive this sin.

Fourth, the marriage of brothers to from the marital relationship withdraw , with divorce is to meet his good strong heart, that he is innocent , holy, this practice is improper. He did not understand , divorce brought by a series of difficult problems , are inconceivable. for Both are great combat and scars. Brothers should think about themselves and then " holy "or with a sin nature. Since God can pardon on earth sinners , since God has released his own wife , why he could not forgive her?

Fifth, the brother of the idea is too simple hasty and reckless , but also should change your own personality.

In short , the couple the best find church pastor and marriage counselor for help , to understand marriage the meaning of in order to forgive each other , each other forgive , each other, and fix in marriage loopholes , from the love of Jesus Christ to forgive each other, to re-establish A satisfactory relationship of marriage .

2010年9月24日星期五

Love can not be called "love"

Falling in love is love it?

‧ psychiatrist Scott Peck Slovakia (M. Scott Peck) and the psychologist if the West Tower . Snow Fields (Dorothy Tennov) made the conclusion that the fundamental experience of love can not be called "love . " Dr. Tian Nuo experience made for the love of a new word "Limerrance", to distinguish her experience of the so-called true love . Bike Bo Shi concluded that the experience of falling in love can not be love , for three reasons .

First of all : falling in love is not a rational action , or a conscious choice. No matter how much we may want to fall in love, we do not to make it happen ; the other hand, we do not deliberately seek time , this experience may still come upon us. Often , which makes us an inappropriate time , with unlikely people fall in love.

Second : falling in love is not love , because it effortlessly . In love period, no matter what we do, rarely need to use self-discipline or a conscious effort . We call each other a long , expensive phone ; to see the flowers and other travel , gifts given and done, seem to not matter to us . Nature to instruct them as birds nest : the experience of the nature of love , and promote each other we did some strange and unusual things.

Finally : a love of the people , not really interested in nurturing each other's personal growth . " When we love , if you really want to ask what purpose ? that is to end his solitude , to achieve this result through marriage . " love experience, not to focus on their growth , do not pay attention to each other's growth and development. But it gives us a feeling you're done , that we no longer need to grow . On the contrary, we have at the peak of happiness in life , the only desire is to stay there ; of course, the people we love do not need to grow , because she is perfect . We only hope that she will continue to maintain its original perfection.

Love is love it?

Love , we tend to be contrary to our nature attracted to people , this may be " very different with the most repulsive attraction "in the relevant laws of physics . For example: lively outgoing person who likes to keep a cool head , quick action will appreciate the leisurely type , there are puzzling me the most is the cost-conscious people , often accompanied by spending the last generous person. People in love , there is always a misconception that his love is perfect ; and how people say , is irrelevant. However, when the waves died down emotional love , the couple returned to the real world , the differences between the two men out on the show . How many of us would ask: " Why do we get married? we always disagree . " peak in love , we always thought that two were in agreement (at least in every important things ) . So, the real world is really a love marriage, the tomb of it?

Where can one find true love ?

Ancient Greek on the "love" word is there are four different levels : the first word of love is Eros, refers to men and women "sex "in marriage is holy . The second love is Storge, natural affection refers to the love between family members , extended to the children by the husband and wife , relatives. The third love is Phileo, means " friendship . " The fourth love yes yes Agape, which is "Agape" is the sacrifice and dedication , unconditional, everlasting love. Want to know "love" , it must be God's "love "to understand , because " God is love "," We love because He first loved us ", we can not give other people do not have our own , because " love is From God "; the Bible 's " Love Song " is passed down through the ages of poems, is the best interpretation of love : " Love is patient and kind ; love is not jealous ; Love does not boast , not proud , Rude things , not for their own benefit, not easily provoked, thinks no evil people do not like injustice , but rejoices in the truth ; everything , always trusts , always hopes , always perseveres , Love never fails ... " ( I Corinthians Chapter 13 , section 4-8 )

To explore the mysteries of love

"New relations between the sexes "(The New Intimacy) and health author Judy Weiss (Judith Sherven, Ph.D. and James Sniechowski, Ph.D) put forward : that gender differences in contrast , is the hidden secret of true love Place , this love is waiting to be awakened and stimulated . If your determination, courage and will to improve the relationship between husband and wife get along , willing to abandon old unconstructive behavior, choosing a healthy interactive behaviors , you can be the difference between the two grow together into a catalyst , so that these differences Does not bother you, in fact , a close interaction between the new unhappy marriages can become a good couple more too!

" creative consciousness "(Conscious Creativity) is a "new relations between the sexes , " the authors designed a way to help couples face the reality , no longer evade the issue . Purpose is to find the couple together and create a new mode of communication , a kind of whatever and give each other a manner satisfactory to both . Focus on both spouses must be true to state the problem , and carefully listen to each other , respect each other's feelings , of which nine steps are as follows :

1 . definition
To express the real issues are bothering you , and as specific as possible .

2 . experience feelings
Clear and complete to tell each other how you feel , let the other have experienced and understand how you feel.

3 . Do not forget , you are really concerned about him
Remember : the harmonious relations between the sexes , as is crafted of mosaic art , which is composed of many materials to form the . In all of the issues in the relationship between you and your spouse is the most to be cherished .

4 . guard against self- abuse
When the relationship between them ring true meaning , please pay attention to your own feelings , do not let the negative patterns of behavior take you .

5 . to change their mind
Open the door of your heart , believe that any problems can be understanding , and a variety of different solutions . So you will not be caught resting on its laurels situation, despite arguments to each of the emotional gap between them dig deeper .

6 . assume responsibility
Ask themselves their own situation in the troubled years, it also should bear some responsibility? "One takes two to tango " , usually , the couple 's problem can not be caused only by one party to .

7 . to respect each other's differences
Remember each other and you're different, learning to understand your spouse as an independent entity , there are differences at all levels of office , you have to respect these differences, the position of standing on the other side to ideas , learning from the heart , the problem easier to solve .

8 . consciousness Innovation
Has been manipulated and enforced in person , you want to share in each other's mind what position , you should also put him in your heart the same location . Foster a new vision to appreciate and respect each of these personality traits .

9 . to seek win-win situation
Make a decision, remember that you are two different people , this decision is necessary to seek mutual benefits , not only for the unilateral vision . Decision problem is not who wins , the whole consultation process is focused on mutual respect and trust , so that husband and wife closer together, more grow .

If you are the past and the other half because there are differences of opinion , it finds that your relationship will never become a stalemate , please be sure to discourage this dangerous idea. The situation you are facing relationship usually means that you need to be adjusted , perhaps you need to do maintenance of interactive , or a change of engine oil , and only a dream -like love everything will be smooth , everything solved . Come on! Come on!

About
Pei-Fen Tsai current "Canada Campus Crusade for Christ " ministry director of China's network , the network responsible for editing and publishing the new beauty magazine , her husband Wang Daqing pastor of Christ in the Northern California Bay Area home the first pastor , education has three children . Please visit the "New Beauty "Browse more of her articles .

The myth of love

In fact, love is not obsessed obsessed permanent . Love is indeed great, but this is just a process. Can not and will not have continuity . To successfully and intimate marriage is not an easy thing to do , you have to make efforts, efforts to maintain your love .

Let me take you back to the original that you just met , you can remember those days? You know , then you have another attraction , causing a spark . The spark sparked your love , your love.

Make your heart love the excitement of endless , candlelight dinners, lots to talk about the sweet , happy laughter , you both are immersed in the love wave peak ! you stick the extreme physical contact . Touch is like an electric shock even as captivating .

Love , you feel you match the right is simply great, love when you can not even speak a few hours , then tired . Do you think you are such a deep mutual understanding of each other , so to understand the mind . Other words have a degree , he was frank to you without reservation .

"I love that dress . "

"Today I am not happy at work . "

"I ran into the shoes of a stone . "

" Rabbit is a cartoon baby in my favorite role . "

Love is really fascinating and exciting, you think he observant , saying the sentence words are on your mind . Although , in fact not the case , but when you are in love , he said a single word is like the real thing .

So the fact that then?

In fact, love is not obsessed obsessed permanent . Love is indeed great, but this is just a process. Can not and will not have continuity . To successfully and intimate marriage is not an easy thing to do , you have to make efforts, efforts to maintain your love .

When in love period, how can you do? The difference between you and the living habits of different speed your crazy , your child has occupied your life. At this point, you must run your marriage. One way to help you well and you communicate with him .

One-way communication

Women can be straightforward , honest and direct way communication method , so that they open their hearts to speak, her husband . One-way communication is that you directly go to your husband , with his brief , tell the truth , with him you feel , think , what happened between you tell him.

With your husband says he does not want to answer . Just ask him to listen ; let him have time to think about what you say , when he was ready, then told him to share with you his response . You finished, stopped , wait do not rush out loud , at least wait five minutes before continuing.

Why? There are two reasons:

1 , a man is not immediately respond . They need time to figure out their feelings on a matter and ideas . If it is about their own problems, they even need more time.

2 , men feel the pressure a woman will always remain silent. When they feel under control , they will to silence against you , so you know you can do nothing to force them to speak up.

One-way communication methods may just do the same . However, common methods used to force a woman he immediately replied, absolutely not work. Try a one-way communication, operating in the heart after your marriage , your love will be wonderful to reproduce , in my experience , which not only makes more profound feelings , and will forever have the love it .

2010年9月19日星期日

The mood is very complicated!!!!!!

People grow up to be imperceptible feel very vexed, also don't know why, while the heart is uncomfortable. Sometimes really quick Armageddon. But also will hate the world.

We are the world's trip!
Vanity of vanities! All is vanity.

2010年9月8日星期三

Self Blessing

When God created the universe and created man and woman , the first thing I did was bless them . In addition to all human beings between heaven and earth to enjoy the rich , but also human responsibility and care given to the negative , it is necessary we can really control the land . Shows that access to the so-called real blessing , not just idle nothing to do , but to pay attention to the environment and things , and make the care management responsibilities , while also working hard , enjoying the delicious and sweet .

So true blessing if we are to ourselves, in addition to first understand their precious value in the eyes of God , good build optimistic, positive, and confident direction in life , we have to do more substantial in all respects , not only make your life Continuous improvement , regularly updated and can bring benefit to others or things . If therefore we desire to be blessed , is not banking on all day long in life , always the element of surprise to encounter " honored person "or" adventure , " On the contrary , it touches to keep blessing themselves, so that my mind filled with kerosene lamps , not only Enjoy enriching the lives of others can be warm and light , good to be a blessing for people transfer and became a live environment for every blessing .

Appropriate blessings


But sometimes we all anxiously looking forward to , can bring their spouses or children of those blessings , but often had touched avenues of frustration , in because the other party not appreciate the attitude , or a strong rebound in the sense of intense sorrow sorry Time , may wish to consider our wishes for a spouse or children are a blessing , and whether their personality , interests, and to match it ?

One of the Bible 's first Zuya the Israelis , when he was 12 when his son blessing is in accordance with each of the " blessing " for their blessing , that is, according to their different personality and behavioral characteristics Were to wish for their future and the future . So we should believe that when God created us , have already taken down a special blessing bestowed , because these blessings , we all have different temperaments , preferences , and talents, we will also take these features for our Themselves, their family , friends, and even exposed to the environment and matters directly or indirectly, in real terms to bring blessings .

Assistance and support


With this knowledge , we then will not be easily made under the vision , attempting to mold their spouses as a "model sir " or " standard of the wife , " the sons and daughters will not be strong default behavior of the blueprint of life or wanton Press maltreatment . But can use a grateful heart , learn to observe the exploration of God in them, there are a special blessing and gift , and then often positive words to encourage and help them strive to play strong points ; and when their fear, frustration , to cheer the provision of effective assistance and support.

While many of the narrow world view , so long as to have beautiful , intelligent, knowledge , and everything goes well, is to embrace blessing . It was all alone but also more broad vision and wisdom , can sometimes To know the weaknesses and deficiencies , but under the make-up of God 's blessings , the so-called " blessing in disguise , no bad thing " , not that what this means?

Blessing from God 's nature , and " help "and" help "is the most under God "substantial "and" blessing ", so if we can full of gratitude , to look at themselves and the environment, will find In fact, all the most " real " blessing , had little by little spread to every corner of our walking path . Also relied on these blessings , we can have active lives, capable of life and abundance of love , God and the world to sing out , " Lord Blessings "and praise praise chant .

2010年9月6日星期一

you a monthly income of only 2,000 yuan, to teach you have a good life

Suppose your monthly income is only 2,000 yuan , you can get by quite well . I can help you put money into five . The first 800 , second 400 yuan , the third 100, fourth 200 , fifth 500.

The first , used for living expenses . S all living expenses , can be assigned to 27 yuan per day . 5 yuan breakfast , lunch, a snack or other ( control 7 neurons ), dinner 10 yuan , 5 yuan pocket money there (which you sometimes do not have to spend 5 yuan , to stay up , or pocket money someday to spend a few days , It will not upset your plans ) . This day of food , about 800 yuan per month . However, if you are young , the body does not yet have too many problems , this recipe has too much enough , neither the level of many outdoor workers .

Second , to make friends , expand your interpersonal circle . This is off the . Your telephone can be used up 100. Can treat twice a month , 150 yuan each time , in fact, only you and your friends if two people are generally not so much. Please who? Remember, please than you are thinking or better condition than you , or you need to appreciate the feelings of the person or you good .

Each month, insisted the guests, one year, your circle of friends should be expanded, but will also bring you the value of the intangible , and your reputation , influence , added value is to enhance the image and good , and generous .

Third , to learn . 50 -100 per month per can be used to buy books . Much money , buy the book should read , learn to learn to use the spirit. Each book, after reading , put it into their own language tell people to listen , to share with others can increase your credibility and enhance the affinity , encountered more deeply than you , you also get a lot of Experience . Sometimes do not need to buy 100 books , the extra part of the first deposit up bar, add up after a year can apply for a general interest classes, think they can add value , but also the knowledge to like-minded friends. Oh, this is a good thing !

Fourth , for tourism, travel reward yourself at least once a year . Growth of life from the constant life experiences . Participate in the kind of free exercise of the tour, moved into youth hostels , the earth is not big , go out every year a few years , you can plug into the red on the map , and many good memories , a life force , more enthusiasm and Energy to their work. Do not be afraid to spend money travel more than 2,400 yuan a year , enough to place you go to a lot . Sometimes off-season to travel to spend 2,400 yuan can not be half !

Fifth , the most critical , to invest , be sure to vote in the affirmative to make money , but also to protect the area . Stock : 500 basically can not enter the market, and too risky ; Fund: relatively stable , but too little revenue , while there are also potential losses . Insurance: definitely earned the only drawback is the return on a longer time, because you mean to borrow money to insurance companies , and insurance companies also schedule your interest, but the longer , more profitable . There is risk everywhere, if your life where some accident in which your income is reduced, if you do not invest in insurance, your life would be a mess , and likely to be in vain in front of the investment Insurance, in addition to access to income , there are life support , health security , even if someday God with you a joke , you need not be afraid , because if you choose insurance products , you need not worry. Both insurance companies will give you consolation money , you will wrap the rest did not pay premiums. In this way, you will neither disrupt his plans , not based on 20 years has worked hard for your parents to add more pressure . 500 yuan per month , you can choose many of the more comprehensive insurance products . If the choice of insurance products do not have 500 yuan per month , then the extra to save up a year later , you can conduct a small business , small business is safe , open an Taobao account to wholesale something to Sold , not much loss of anyway , making it not only earn money , but also made a self-confidence and courage to do things also earn experience . Earn more , you can begin increasing the amount of the purchase of long-term investment plans , so their early to get a long-term protection , to keep themselves and their families in the future, no matter what happens , have a sufficient funds to take care of , Quality of life will not fall. What's more, insurance is not tax all income the only products inside the actual one count , more than any other income more .

Well, this boil for a year, second year 2000 dollars if you still get the income that you have not had ( perhaps you get the cash or 2000 1000 , but there is insurance, where the dividend , counted or the ratio More than 2000 's ) have enough shame alive to see what brand of tofu rather hard, buy a one point , with head against it . Haha !

Monthly income below 3,000 yuan , must be part-time money , do not already have limited income, is also a strong character , pick and choose , this unwilling to do , that is not interested . Income is not high, must be very hard , try to go with the sale of related work , such as real estate , shopping promotions, leaflets , and all these are very good part-time job , not only get to know a lot of valuable people , but also Can exercise their own information-gathering capabilities and marketing skills . This is a lifetime of wealth . All employers have experienced a cumulative process, you dry them for later when the big boss is prepared for .

Ah clothes , shoes, ah , this year you have to buy as little as possible . All the best to buy through your part-time earn . As a way to reward yourself . Extra time to make money , remember to buy a gift for your love , thank him / her to support your financial plan . Very frankly told him / her, why you are so thrifty , tell him / her of your dreams and efforts.

Businessmen who need help everywhere , part-time help them to do something , to hone their own will, eloquence , and ability to work it, with your financial skills, the second year , your income to at least 5,000 yuan . Minimum should be 3,000 yuan , or your income has not keep up with inflation, the growth of it .

No matter how much your income , remember divided into five . Increase investment in health , the body is always useful to increase social investment , and expand your network of contacts , to increase the investment in learning , strengthen your self-confidence , increase investment in tourism , expand your horizons , in particular, to increase the future Investment , increase your income , can not boil a lifetime , to the old, and have to work , or through the bad .

To maintain this balance, gradually you will start a large number of surplus . This is a virtuous circle of life plans . Body will be getting better and better , get more nutrition and care. Friends will be more and more , store many valuable connections at the same time , you have the means to participate in the very high end of the training so that all aspects of their own full-fledged , broad thinking , pattern of large , harmonious personality . And you also can gradually realize their various dreams , buy their needs of a house, car , and to the children of the future fund to prepare an adequate education , let the children win at the starting line .

Life is designed career is planned , well-being can be prepared . Can now start . When you poor , less at home , more outside. When you rich , to many at home and less outside. This is the art of living . Too poor , the money is spent for others, the rich , the money is spent to yourself. Many people have done upside down.

So poor , do not care about , better than others . When rich , learn to let other people for their good . Better for themselves . Make their own contribution to the poor out , to let people use . Fu , should own a good collection , careful not to use others indiscriminately . These wonderful way of life , and few can understand .

If your income is only 1,500 yuan , then you divide by the above , flexibility in the allocation . I can not believe , but it must believe in yourself and only pay for the operation to harvest tomorrow, enjoy the future ~ !

Poor time and money to anyone . When the rich , spend money to enjoy themselves . When the poor must be generous , when the rich , do not parade one's wealth was . Life has resumed a simple , quiet has returned .

Young is not a fault , no fear of poverty . Know how to develop their own , know what valuables , to understand what the investment , know where to save , which is the key to the whole process . Freeze buy clothes , buy less , but you can buy some great taste . Eating out less , eat the treat , to please , please more than their dreams , more thought, more effort.

Once the needs have enough money , the biggest cost is to use your income , achieve your dream , to open your wings and dare to dream , to make a different journey through life .

2010年9月3日星期五

Song of a Wanderer - eternal in the call

1, the authenticity of the existence of God
Up under the atheism of intellectuals , have similar large development on the basic concepts of human knowledge , that is, when humanity is in the original stage of low productivity , people lightning , floods , earthquakes and other natural phenomena fear , and thus began to worship the Thunder , Water God , god, to God , that engendered religion. With the development of productive forces , understanding of the nature of human ability to continuously improve , to understand all this is a natural phenomenon , not even r, supernatural deities , thus confirming the belief of atheism . In other words, theism is the product of the period of human ignorance , atheism is after the period of human civilization into the inevitable end . Therefore, the highly educated intellectuals who view atheism is taken for granted and are proud of .

  With the country's opening up more and more Chinese students and scholars to the West to study and work. The face of both the United States a world-class science and technology standards , but is dominated by theistic thinking country , our dismay and confusion can be imagined. But let us come to a large 180 -degree turn to face the disdain of theism we have in the past , both emotionally and rationally , are very difficult. I am living in America in the first eight , nine , and resolutely resist the theism , and never any contact with Christianity and religion .

  However, the existence of God is of man's subjective will of the objective facts. The existence of God 's attitude of solidarity with everyone , no one can avoid . Where the pursuit of truth, and truth constantly revised their views before the people , sooner or later will recognize the real existence of God . English philosopher Francis Bacon (Francis Bacon) has repeatedly pointed out that a little bit of philosophy will guide people toward atheism and materialism of the error ; great philosophy but will come back to the introduction of religion 1 . Not only as Newton , Einstein believed that God so great masters (although Einstein did not believe God is bit lattice ), even pioneers of Darwinian Huxley (Thomas Henry Huxley) admitted: " From a purely philosophical Standpoint, atheism is untenable "2.

In recent years, through repeated study , reflection and struggle , I gave up atheism view , willingly accepted theism and accept Jesus Christ as my personal Savior and dominate . Now, I will speak about aspects of the authenticity of the existence of God , to share with you .

  " Bible " book of the < Genesis > The first sentence is, "In the beginning God created the heaven and earth . " This is a great claim . Because there is no need to prove God , but also the limits of reason can not prove. But God so loved the world , under the inspiration Teci people can know him. God's revelation can be divided into general revelation and special revelation two categories.

2010年9月1日星期三

Young age

Sunday dinner , the family has not been fully seated , people first began to eat . Year-old granddaughter Étienne Seeing this, it began to worry , she said: "We do not pray ! "She worried that we might forget to pray before dinner thank rice .

Her concern is a good marker . This represents a very young age of Étienne began to form good habits , it is the parents to teach children in a part of life . This example : the habit of small details can help to see the value of prayer and Shane , which the wisdom of life , let her growing up years of proven infinitely useful.

In this hostile to the Christian era , it is necessary to nurture the faith of children and young is not easy . Parents have always wanted to find a best way to help your baby trust in the Savior , he had discussed the joy of life. Maxim that nature by teaching parents and target children is an important guide is the key ( Proverbs1Chapter8Section). In these things : such as listening to the wisdom (2Chapter2Section ), speaker seeking intelligent (2Chapter3Section ), understand the fear of the Lord (2Chapter5Section ), do not forget the teachings of their parents (3Chapter1Section ), attend to know understanding (4Chapter1Section ) , when parents teach after teaching , and teach children the words of these retained their heart , these are also naturally be used (4Chapter1-4Section).

Do you have children or grandson? Teach them into the wisdom of life, never too early .JDB

God delivered the child at the time,
Teach them to love the Lord more ,
Trained upright life,
Subject to compliance with His Word .Sper

Always knocking the years

When will the transfer season
Become a moaning your joints
When , years of silent percussion
Luo Cheng Wang deep cross your face wrinkles
When , a while the fear of loneliness
Quietly from your damp eyes Emission
When you do not know
Do not know when ... ...
Happy birthday to you Happy birthday to you ... ... ... ... singing, candlelight , fresh cream cakes are woven into the joy of your growth .However, in addition to celebrating this day , are not the slightest gratitude : you want to have your education , middle of the night hold you ask your parents.

How long , fashionable gap to isolate you and your parents .How long , you do not know the parents have gray hair , until that day , catch a glimpse of the parents in the hair , jet black pigment , terrible Phi flow in the parent 's face , you just know : Dad , Mom old.
How long have you not noticed , or nagging parents smile , the endless pile out wrinkles .Until that day, You take the hand of their parents , only to find that knocking out the rough withered years before they thought of the bottle of moisturizer to the parents to send .

By this time, you only know the parents of students with the transfer season rheumatism , arthritis, disease-free for no reason the original was not moan .Passage of time, parents are old, you know roughly what it called filial piety and what is old and what is limited .
Christians and their parents , love their parents . They have a limited life and endless days, know and understand the one eternal God : Jesus Christ .The face of years , the face of aging, they thank God , because He said: " I am the resurrection and the life I have . "

When parents enter old age, sigh to say : the useless old man , or your own middle age , old age , ever think that one care about you, look after your God.

Christian courage to face life, enjoy life , to accept aging, because they know that this is the gift of God , is a to him, into the eternal journey.

If you want to have Christian as comfortable with the satisfaction of joy and Grasp of aging , it can do to make such a prayer to God : "Dear Jesus , I admit that life is limited, I admit I made many mistakes , many of the crime . I Willing to accept you as Savior of my life , in charge of my life , whether young , whether it is old age, help me to know you better . seeking the name of the Lord Jesus Christ . Amen . " ( A sincere wish they mean)