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Blue dream

2010-10-15T01:53:00.001-07:00

have dim memories of the years, leaving only a blue, deep, clarity and mysterious. Sail away like a piece of life, floating in the rivers of life Tuan Tuan, somewhere clear his fate.

  sun tow rope pulling the years passed from the old Yellow River, the trail on a wet depression show a string of crushing the feet, it is the fiber of his life marks, trapping in the patch of muddy earth, left yesterday, left to travel the journey of the soul, leaving the native country of dreams lost.

  he had stolen fire from heaven that can cave in the cave to be the sun lamp that he had thought that vomit can be a heart grief to wake up the soul numbing second memory, he thought that a few "elite" on her own Fixed a tow rope to pull the boat five years, he thought, "heavy subject" on the construction of a cultural pyramid to sink patch of land can hold up ┅ ┅

  For the anxious longing, he made a tragic trail of the Yellow River is also sorrowful reason, culture and adventure of life, so less land of China   a soldier can never be a general, but always possible General to do the "head" of the soldier, who has more than a dream.

  blue in search of that dream, he banished ┅ ┅ life

  early eighties, China, over the twinkling stars.

  It was a time trial, the fate of the reform of the throat, strangling, a wave of great times and support the traditional institutional framework of the impact that system was crumbling, history and reality are faced with severe challenges. The Silence of the intellectual can no longer silent, and the fate of the brave choice of a number of seekers.

  1983 years away Victor's name began to appear frequently in the country's most authoritative theory of several publications and newspapers:

  "China Social Science," "Philosophy," "People's Daily", "Wen Wei Po", "Guangming Daily" ┅ ┅

  only year he published more than a dozen articles.

  like a star across the intellectual over the room quietly. At that time, he is a 28-year-old soldier with no college degree.

  1984, the autumn. Yuan Zhiming admitted to Department of Philosophy, Renmin University of China, Graduate School, not into the campus to become a newsmaker, and even rank are rumors of "promotion" of the two.

  That year, he was 29 years old, with years of military service and a published book, "Social and Human" and another forthcoming book, "a heavy subject." On these two books, much later Victor had this explanation:

  "" society and people "ideology of Marxism of contemporary China, especially the historical part, made a detailed criticism. Such criticism is not subversive, but try employing view of the doctrine of Marxism to make The new interpretation. This book is actually criticized
Chinese-style Marxism, human dignity, human values and disregard for human freedom, and points out the Chinese people's enthusiasm and creativity is repressed system and culture, are misleading, this is the root cause of poverty and backwardness. "Heavy subject" is from the cultural traditions and the existing system to try to explain both how the Chinese are repressed, but unfortunately, some of the existing system on the time of publication had to be deleted. When I was such a culture and system, history, thought and reality at the end of the cross, I get this feeling: - China's hope lies in the world; achieve this hope, awakened by the world rely on the Chinese people; our generation is doomed to bear heart pain, perhaps we can become so great. "

- Yuan Zhiming " Supplements"

  Zhiming Yuan last two lines of text written in 1984 to a "heavy subject" to the end. At that time, he did not think the fate of the suffering has been prepared for him, a lonely boat has been moored at a pier next life ┅ ┅

  he took the handsome soldier, philosopher and poet of the deep passion to step onto the campus of Renmin University.

  He is the son of farmers. His heart could not on that vast underlying security, good natured and Shen redundant land, he was destined to be banished to the ground, and even one day crying out to the earth. When he announced his smartly destined to bear the pain of the mind, he has not heard, fate has been knocking at the door ┅ ┅

Trek

  he could not well aware of his inner feelings in the blue, or blue selected him. 1987, when the "blue" creative team of the Yellow River along the ancient dream, he did not know why the last hopes of finding a blue happens, happens and that the blue cover on his head ("blue" were six episodes, the first episode is "Dream", Diliu Ji is the "blue", took part in the Diliu Ji Yuan Zhiming's writer).

  in the "blue", I read this description:

  "blue sky, deep and mysterious. People used to believe that the mysterious blue depict the entire universe, it is the color of the universe.

  only twenty years ago, when humans first left Earth, in space Looking to their home, they will surprised to find that, in the current stars in the known universe, only our human home planet, is a blue planet. "

  Fengyun blue planet, in the vast universe, spinning, just like the vast galaxy where a splendid sapphire, lonely shining bright light of civilization. This is unique so far Zhiming the blue bangs, he indulged in the imagination of blue   blue that he wanted to find inspiration: why a planet in the same, when the Museum of Western civilization up, Asian Civilization they go dim it? The source of the light blue where? He rolled from the wisdom of the paddle, the beginning of a thrilling and romantic and cultural drift.

  Tuantuan surging tide of economic reform and groaned, hedge camel's political base in the high dam was under the Paoxiao, Diwai is dry and parched fields, vast land of the economic territory of Ukraine split the thirsty lips, despair, listening to the great tide of wailing, sky and shouts!

  1989, the waves of a spring night.

  Beijing, Chinese Academy of Social Economic Research Institute.

  most outstanding contemporary Chinese middle-aged group of intellectuals gathered in the night.

  room filled with smoke, flashing red flickering flame of the cigarette butts, as if the little fishing boat lights, flashing on the coast of thought.

  Victor sitting far corner of the last row.

  These days, almost every night and soak him in this elite "cultural salon", he initiated at the university organized a Reform Association. This study will be directly responsible for the State Commission for Restructuring the research topic.

  very warm meeting, it was uncompromising, is that in theory the maze in circles. Suddenly, far Zhiming outraged:

  "no time, you still arguing this!"

  clap of thunder like sound, awed by all the voices, the room silent for a second, people "brush" to look back:

  far from the last row of standing Victor, chest heaving, her face flushed with excitement:

  "Why are only sitting here pontificating, but not issue freely of?"

  after a long time, but also a spring breeze rippling the night away in Torrance, California, home of Victor, I met a Beijing reporter, six years ago, she mentioned that much hair in public Zhiming field fire, suddenly said, "others are unknown Baiyuan Zhi Ming was believed in God, how could I not surprised. I told him the deepest impression is the day when people are sitting pontificating, when only one who stood up to what you preach to. "

  wife Lily Yuan Zhiming taunt said:

  "special day 'lost envy', in our Institute of Economic Research, in the presence of so many people in the face!"

  sacred mission spur far Zhiming, he had a time to fasten his chariot, life turned into a rolling wheel, driving fast to the rugged steep rolling on the road to explore.

  Zhiming Yuan published in cooperation with the package Zunxin Books "Culture Renditions", published in Hong Kong, "Pacific Forum" opened at the Central Communist Youth League, "History of Western Political Thought," a large class of candidates to do more than the national community of researchers, Weekend colloquium, lectures around the country ┅ ┅

  indulge in his passion into, indulge in shouting among indulge in looking into, being immersed in the glory of life.

  "The thinking, the thinking about the past, the thinking time, but also the thinking self. Can not be solemnly tried myself, how can it eligible for the trial time?"

- Liu Zaifu "looking Elegy"

  Unfortunately, a few years ago, the land of their dreams in the motherland, Liu Zaifu write a poem so dignified, indulge in the glory of life among the Victor would not listen so much dignified voice.

  his eyes examined by the trial society, history and people, he thought he was the Illuminati, a knight, is the monk, he thought as long as the noble spirit of the climb on the tall pyramid, to be off the sun in the sky, shines under clouds beings.

  he said to the world, open the windows to let the sun shine in it! However, he revealed their minds locked into the attic, quietly dropped curtain, so in the depressed heart imprisoned in convulsions, struggles, Paoxiao, rage and even chaos smash things to vent their anger, the wife lamented, "there is a person, half genius, half madman ┅ ┅ ".

  China Youth Political College has a red floor bedroom, it is the castle of his soul, he left the window bright and allows the room was clouded. He was able to interpret to the world social, historical and national suffering to himself and his wife could not decipher the mystery of the suffering soul.

  He wanted to save the nation, save the country, but, he can not save himself.

  applause sounded, when, who could hear the sigh of the soul?

  clarity and blue sky outside the window, the sun on the balcony gentle and bright, the eyes of envy of the world pour in his explorations are woven into a splendid way to the Arc de Triomphe, when he passed under the door from the Arc de Triomphe, when all were released into the atmosphere of gloom ┅ ┅

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Disillusionment

  1989 年 6 月 4 am, the one that makes the world erect surprise of the night.

  fate of the "click" sound wrung rust astringent Tongsuo   look at your life, stop looking!

  earth trembled a little, the world into a swoon ┅ ┅

  Zhiming Yuan running madly in the night, he slit open his bare chest and heart Tears of Blood, sky and shouts:

  "kill you, kill it!"

  "Who is this nightmare did it?'s Enormous devil to impinge upon you, sharp claws tore your skin, and piercing your organs, it is to slowly devour your heart, smoking Dry your blood, then you wail like crazy over and over again:

  This is the dream of it, tell me this is a dream now! Can sense the earth was a thousand times thousand answer you:

  This is not a dream, this is not a dream!

  At this moment, how would you feel Oh! Already very desperate do you? You have endured! You sad biting it? You have endured! You'd rather die it? You have endured! You say this is absolutely not tolerate it? No, you have endured!

  This is me, that morning. "

- Yuan Zhiming "nightmare"

  never have thought that a vast ocean, and there will not be so small building a cottage deep philosophy, and never can resist the thin Chaoyin heart, and never at night nets to capture sea stars of the ┅ ┅

  bird blue glass ball "thumping" to break the sound by a bullet, pointed hard blizzard punctured his eyes, the world turned into a blood-red, black, rough with, Paoxiao the, tank Side , crushed the earth ┅ ┅

  1989 年 10 17, Ministry of Public Security issued an arrest warrant:

  illegal organization "Federation of Beijing intellectuals" backbone elements far Zhiming, XXX, XXX, XXX and other four persons to participate actively in inciting, organizing unrest and counter-revolutionary rebellion, commit serious crimes, it was decided to be wanted. Please access the local public security organ after the arrest warrant, the deployment of investigation work, especially in the border provinces and regions to strengthen the investigation and found that after the verdict, detention, and speed of five Ministry of Public Security reported.

Ministry of Public Security August 17, 1989

  "favored" going to turn into a "desperate"   Banqimiankong fate finally learned to worthy seekers to class ┅ ┅

Sincerely love the Lord

2010-10-14T00:55:00.000-07:00

"May all sincere people who love our Lord Jesus Christ, all find grace." (Ephesians 6:24)

When we think of that man come to earth from heaven, the Lord Jesus Christ laid down his life blood, so loves us, no one sincerely love him, tell him how sad that this Is the Son of God to the earth with the love you can not get people ? He loves all people, including us, as if it were only a hundred sheep in each, he is looking for one by one, he is calling us one by one, he would that we all love him one by one He loves each of us simultaneously, he can appreciate the love each of us while we are watching as his only love.

Indeed, throughout the universe, world, and only the Lord loves us, not only my person is coming from him, and we all came from him everything. If anyone loves us, that is out of his arrangement, otherwise no one loves us, if not for his love and ready to do any good available.

In this way, we do not love him? He gave himself as the great love is not enough that people far beyond the love? Who more than he loves us? Who is more cute than he? Who is our real intimate it? Who ever reliable, does not change it? Who like him, totally cute? We love him for granted, is the most worthwhile and I hope we sincerely love the Lord Jesus Christ, who have kept his favor.

The sea will make you forget Jesus

2010-10-12T19:19:00.000-07:00

"Where is your faith?" Road 8:25

Do not be silent, listen carefully. Do you hear is the sound of water small boat took a sudden, the voice of Jesus broke the silence: "Where is your faith?"

You do not dare to face him, because you know, this issue contains a rather severe rebuke behind. Do you doubt him, forgetting he is the master of heaven and earth, you have seen the resurrection of his son, called the widow and healing the paralytic, Jesus is not afraid of you see the people who threatened the leaders, he made them bewildered. His broken heart with love and acceptance of people singing to make you happy spirit! His authority is unquestionable! But you doubt him.

Of course, sitting on the grass listening to his godly words, it is easy to trust in Jesus. When you see one after another have kept treating those who suffer, we are likely to have confidence. But when you live in the storm tossed lake, you sure do not seem to feel anything, so you will be wondering.

But you will remember what happened that day, right? Well, then you when it keeping everything, if another storm comes, you will remember the lessons you have learned, and firmly believe that not only disease and evil spirits obey him, "even the winds and waves obey him! "(Mark 4:41).

Dear disciples, one day, the Holy Spirit will fill you and give you ability to take on more work. You will also remember that Jesus and know how to trust your soul to be filled with God and become more peaceful, so completely free from the impact of wind and waves roaring around you.

Take my hand

2010-10-09T00:37:00.001-07:00

One day, my whole family and a young couple went to the lighthouse lake Michigan, where the lake rough, great tide. I heard the little girl said to her father: "Dad, this section was terrifying yo, you walk beside me, holding my hand."

Sometimes, life will have this time of fear: the loss of a loved one, facing financial crises, health problems and so on. When we bring these burdens and worries, they all look forward to a double strong hand holding us and lead us through secure.

When Joshua succeeded Moses as leader of the Israelites, Moses asked him to remember how God helped him during difficult times. The hardships facing the future, trust must be remembered Joshua Moses reminded God and His promises. Moses said: "The Lord will go before thee, he will be with you, and will not leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid, nor be dismayed." (Deuteronomy31章8节）

In Isaiah41章13Section the word of God encourages us: "Because I am the Lord your God will hold thy right hand, say to you: Do not be afraid! I will help you." Face a difficult life, God with us, we can pull his hand.

Lowe. Alexandria's poems remind us of God and that: "Life or high ranges, the desert wilderness, life low; sometimes the sky always blue, and sometimes the north winds blow. But remember you're not alone ... ... Jesus is on your side. "He is always with us, in times of fear holding our hands.

The true bread from heaven

2010-10-08T00:20:00.000-07:00

Everyone is eager to get the true bread of life, but they know what the true bread, the difficulties to come! Jews are bewildered, can not understand the truth of Christ declared. Maybe they are accustomed to the pursuit of material desires of the people, so they see the truth, naturally, only on the physical level. Because, accustomed to secular standards in appearance and judge things, and they can know, is also limited to the confines of this world, but never think of God's greatest message is caused by a carpenter, and he is from heaven down real food.

"Christ is the bread of life", which is a grace bestowed by God's initiative. God has many multi-party Xiao Yu, enlightenment, that is, except that the depths of understanding the life within, there is a non-material can fill the hungry and thirsty people will listen, chew this revelation? Of significance. And by God's guidance, to the thinking, confidence, eating and drinking it on the bread of life. Brothers and sisters, we are being attracted by Christ's perfect life of the people, we are eating his flesh and drink his blood, humble people, are willing and the life of Christ on the inside of the inside out to us was, to witness that he is the true bread of life.

After reading like 10 seconds, you will change yourself!

2010-10-07T01:27:00.001-07:00

A pair of brothers, they lived in 80 floors. One day they travel home to find the building a power cut! Although they are carrying a large bag of luggage, but it seems there is no other choice, so the elder brother said, we go up the stairs! So they began to climb the stairs carrying two packages luggage. Climbed to the 20th floor when they were beginning, my brother said, "bag is too heavy, it is better so be it, we put bags on here, so after the elevator to come and collect calls." So they put your luggage on the 20th floor and relaxed, continue to climb.
　　
They talked and laughed to climb, but it did not last long, to 40 buildings, two very tired. Think I would have climbed only half, they began blaming each other, accused each other of not pay attention to the building of the power outage announcement, will come to such a fate. They climb side noisy side, so all the way to climb the 60 floor. To the 60 floor, too tired to even argue that they have no strength. Brother, his brother said, "We do not quarrel, and climbed it right." So they quietly continue climbing stairs, and finally to 80 F! The brothers came to the door with excitement only to find their keys in a bag in the 20th floor.
　　
Some say that this story is actually a reflection of our life: 20 years old, we live with family, under the expectations of teachers, burdened with a lot of stress, burden, and he is not mature enough, insufficient capacity, so walking is inevitable instability. After 20 years of age, left the crowd pressure, remove the burden, began to go all out to pursue their dreams, it is so happily over 20 years. But to 40-year-old youth is past that can not help but have a lot of regret and repent, they begin to regret this, regret that, complaining about this, hate that, so spent in the complaint in 20 years. To 60 years old, found that life is running low, then told myself not to complain, and to cherish the rest of the day! So quietly finish their years. To the end of life, he come to own what seems to have not completed, the original, all our dreams were left in a 20-year-old youth.
Were great because of their dreams, opportunities will always belong to those who prepared and act now!

Women how to self-growth

2010-10-06T02:34:00.001-07:00

In last week's show Time talking about the crisis facing middle-aged man , also talked about some of the crisis facing middle-aged women . With the crisis going to face , but also to find a way how the crisis into opportunity. In this week 's show time, Hu teacher should further talk to us about how to help women through their mid-life crisis , Mr. . Also talk about how women themselves through self- growth, to help you face life in many aspects of the crisis.
Speaking last week, women face a variety of crises, of which one is the women are concerned about a crisis of our own , we have Mr. crisis facing them all . Speaking last week, the crisis faced by Mr. , the basic is very close to the place with the women is to get to middle age , no longer young. At this time , they have a lot of hesitation and do not know how to face their own road ahead , not only is the case, we also talked about career , Mr. , no matter how kind he is , it will be possible to have a midlife crisis . In fact, the proportion of men than women mid-life crisis is higher. We also mentioned that a man lost his past relationships, so he was like to have close friends , but in the meantime, his wife also has its own challenges, his wife has entered middle age , no longer young, as if nothing Is not the time to understand what it all by Mr. . Women now entering middle age , and by the very capable Mr. trained children , and anything that can work independently of the . So , no longer as in the past , nothing would be more respect for the views of Mr. , now entering middle age women also have a great views. In this way , sir, would feel very lonely , he may be out looking for people who know him , and that women at this time how to do it?
　　
We will now talk about how to help women through his midlife crisis , Mr. . There is a saying that "to know ourselves victorious , "so , we'll know his middle age, when President , he met what kind of a challenge. We found that men usually have a phenomenon that is out of the school is learning is completed. However, many of the so-called self-growth is no longer a man out of the schools studied . " no school "means does not mean that he would not face these crises , this emotional fluctuations. He did not go school , and that his wife had to go to get to know more . If you think you sir, look like a midlife crisis , what is not a good mood , want to change careers, what they feel lonely . So , women can look at some mid-life crisis book , we learn more about your husband after he is what the mood , listen to his voice. In many cases, the couple seems to be a model of interaction , just , what to eat today ? Children how? Is the only, nothing else , do not know what to talk . Therefore, women can learn is how to not have speech, we mentioned earlier , if a lot of women , men seem less so .
　　
Some people do research in the United States , men talk about 7000 words a day , average, twice as many women than men talk about the word . Therefore, very often , if a woman filled with nowhere to vent, and so on , ah , ah , waiting for the door , Mr. . Mr. often of his words have been 7000 when the finished work , came home and had nothing to say. Wife on the crackling , the Mr. in front of a fire , then stomach . So, to learn that his wife has been told not to , you can go and sisters have much to say, you can find your friends say, but President back, listen to his situation today, how to work (for example : the old How about you Ah king ? bosses have appreciated you here? ) to ask about their President, so he can speak out, struggling to understand what he was in the end , what distress. We women are often too many words that do not have a listening ear , more reading, more understanding, in the end what is faced by men , should know more about your husband needs.
　　
If you want to share their feelings , Mr. , voice , remember do not speak of Mr. , then it follows that you pick one of his weaknesses , for some of the things he did , again began to accuse him. In fact, " listening to "We all need to learn , we will not listen to other people inside the meaning of words , we do not know that . "Listening "are need to practice , because in the course of our growth , our parents rarely listen to our speech. We are each talking , but no one was listening , so learning to "listen "is a science . We can go see what kind of books can teach us how to listen to others speak , can really have empathy to listen carefully .
　　
Have a couple cold gentleman , his wife to go to the doctor with their husbands , the doctor asked, say: " What illness ? " his wife said: " He had a cold . " asked the doctor said: "The cold days of Rights ? " his wife and replied: "He has seven days of the cold . "" Where is that not sick ? " his wife said : "He's sore throat . " results of the doctor asked: " Who is sick in the end ? " This example We , his wife say too many words for the President , and that he is very aware of their husband , and him how I know. But in fact , there is no opportunity to express , Mr. , Mr. eventually wanted , it would tell you better. Mr. so many more quiet, which is trained by his wife . But in fact the more silence , Mr , Mrs contrary, the more unhappy the more satisfied. " Why do not you speak ? I called to talk to you why you do not speak ? " But the problem is under pressure in this way , no one speaks out. Such an interaction in middle age, when the more obvious places , and more to sad.
　　
If the wife every time , said: "Come on, we have to get to talk . " In fact, that is not to talk about Mr. problem is that you judge me to start again . In this case, the relation between two people is really very healthy, so the President will be getting close themselves more and do not want to talk. He retracted his safety zone , the more you force him to say, the more he refused to speak , and the more unhappy wife to wife to complain about a pile. More blame his wife , sir, no more afraid to speak , so the vicious cycle in which a constant , to get out of this vicious circle is possible , it may be how what? One Is to do " before I came to change . "
　　
Where a lot of family and marriage issues , we regard the arrow points to each other, always said , " is he / she , he / she changed like a " matter of fact, if one party is willing to change first , married life will change. There is a saying that the shortest way to change the other side is to change yourself.

Why am I not princess!

2010-09-30T02:41:00.001-07:00

When I was a fantasy someday become homeland. Can put food, can wear beautiful clothes, what is what you want. But the reality of cruel gave me answer: it is always fantasy.

Originally thought in the marriage can make your life has changed, but found that fantasy is so beautiful, is now so cruel!

Since then I have no illusions, began to complain of your own destiny, began to hate myself. Bad temper is becoming more and more. Don't speak, don't laugh, even though sometimes laugh so happy before nor a...

Interpretation of love password, drawing Mate a blueprint

2010-09-28T00:58:00.000-07:00

Mate is essentially how to seek the will of God one of the subjects , we can not in great detail speak how to seek God's will . But there is an important principle , that is, if this thing is with the two people related that God will at the same time move two people , not only touched one person. So unilaterally say, "God touched me that you have to marry me, " this is wrong. There is a saying to say, "It is unable to extricate themselves apart from the teeth as well as love . " Get out both sides of , no one own dared to pull their teeth, the person unable to extricate themselves apart from the teeth as well as love , because we are all longing for romantic love .

In this Zuoge game , here are 10 right and wrong questions , you get a piece of paper to see if your answer is yes or no , I read a sentence and then you say phrase words the right or will not , you make a Practice. True Love True or false:
A love at first sight is possible.

Dichotomous variable love and infatuation is not difficult to .
Three really love each other people who do not clash.
four after marriage Relatively easy to change the other .
Five men and women fall in love in a timely issues will not affect their relationship.
Six rather marry the wrong person than not to marry well.
Seven if the two fall in love premarital sex does not matter.
Eight love each other men and women will be able to forever .
nine The honeymoon period of not more than to six months for the best.
Ten young than adults know better true love .

These 10 subjects did not know which you have few is option a few is a choice wrong? I want to publish the answer myself! Answers are all NO, is the right comes to love marriage . that Maybe you heard will say right ah ! there are some I think quite reasonable . It is called paradoxical , so we one by one to share with you explain , if you these answers find out , you will have a correct and healthy marriage .

We mention first is love at first sight is possible, in fact not , the problem that many people naturally say yes. it as the My wife saw I count not first sight do ? Saw each other on the phone , like , of course, possible, but not limited to this point , but also continued to the back of development. Because we are down to the show which will be mentioned, love including the four levels of , a love the flower which includes four petals of , we have at first sight only a passionate love . Is love, not wrong, but only love one of them , like this is not complete enough. Therefore, love at first sight it is possible to , yes, but alone love at first sight is not enough . The correct answer is that , if development the long-term stable , the need for spiritual exchange with the coexistence of a variety of experiences, alone calls and sparks is not enough .

The second false: sub- braid true love and infatuation is not difficult . It is not easy, obsessive that to grab mind some of the features , and then blindly to focus and strengthen the the kind of intense feeling of love ( he was cool , she was very beautiful, her body very well ... ... .) Even if men and women the relations between 【 rival law 】 will not be tolerated the fact that obsessed who he did not care , people obsessed with often their own believe they have found true love, it is not. So to be a good resolution what is love , what is the fascination, the best way is to know what is true love , not that obsessive .

The third false: true love will not clash. This is clearly NO, true love of men and women is hard to avoid conflicts , in fact, conflict is not necessarily a bad thing. as we have Southern California for a long time no earthquakes , geologists on the nervous, if some small earthquakes , they are the happy, because formation have been their the energy of released , and it will not suddenly come to a big earthquake. Conflict is not necessarily a bad thing , the conflict let us know our problems where , on the issue of where the other touchy thing is, I get angry easily things are. Properly resolve conflicts and establish an effective communication mode of is to establish and operate any interpersonal relations very important part of , between men and women communication of course even more so we love is not no conflict, but know how to resolve the conflict.

Fourth, false: after marriage easier to change the other . Too many cases have proved that we want with a marriage to change the other is unrealistic , if even in love both sides are usually more willing to please the other when is not easy to change , until the birthright has been set , that even 【 wishful thinking 】 , So choose the object first determine your whether to accept each other even after marriage is not easy to change the personal characteristics with the behavior, do one consideration, do not think that their marriage I'll slowly change the other , that will be thoroughly disappointed.

Fifth, false: men and women when in love, even if there are problems will not affect the relationship. love when Perhaps some of the problems can temporarily aside , to the marriage , in peace living together , small problems will become intolerable big problem. We have repeatedly stressed in the pre-marriage education with the counseling is unmarried men and women required courses , marriage more than preparation, marriage, less fatigue , is the so-called "prevention is better than cure . " today, There are many marriage problems , is and marriage on both sides not enough understanding , the temerity to marry a close relationship. Premarital counseling is really important , because in pre-marital counseling sessions inside to help the two sides from the various aspects of to know more about the two sides of the strengths , weaknesses, each other's fitness, they will be able to re- think in the end they fit.

How to Understand spouse before marriage of infidelity the issue ?

2010-09-26T00:47:00.000-07:00

in a church What happens : a Christian husband and wife wedding night , the brothers found his wife Bing not a virgin after sad , very disappointed that she was not " chaste . " wife to his Confess everything , Bing explained that she believed the Lord before had other boyfriends Bing premarital sexual misconduct experience. However, a Christian , she has repented Bing learned self-love , not physical crime. However, she and her are now husband contacts , I feel he is too conservative , afraid not accept her past , so dared not and he say ... ... but the paper is smoke there's fire , and it was exposed , who brothers how also heard Do not go in his wife's explanation that he was deceived , but also consider themselves very conservative , unwilling and "non- virgin "marriage , then divorce . He said he tolerate could not she was not a virgin it , but could not bear to she hide and think it will affect their life , even if reluctantly together, my heart will have a pimple , not as soon an end forget . So, according to the Bible the teachings of , this situation how to handle ? Husband to lift the marriage relationship, or should be tolerant and understanding ?

Niuyuenanta Light Baptist Church , director Gu Qiwei Pastor answer :

Dear reader, this of Christian couples can be a hundred years He Hao are to be congratulated for the good things . But their combination is worthy of discussion of the details.

First, the brothers love change overnight , and the surface is because of his wife's former not chastity result also shows that brethren the conservative , but is too narrow the idea lead him from one extreme to the other extreme , that he In of marriage view of the immaturity .

The second , in fact, first from God the perspective of , the world is a sinner , are contaminated with world filthy , including this believers couple , including , are against God , to offend people, sins against his own body parts , so we need blood of Jesus Christ Cover the and forgiveness. Even if the brother knew his wife had a bad past , it should be from the heart forgive her, because it was her ignorance committed by , not to mention God has forgiven her sins. Husband should from God forgive the sinner 's perspective to love his wife.

Third, for the sisters , they should understand that love should from the friends Friends of Scouting start , should know this. There are believers to each other friends early , particularly lay marriage before in the with each other normal dealings of natural to explain their love history and experience, the other party 's understanding and trust. Here is a confidence problem , and if she bravely face this difficulty, tears of repentance , the Holy Spirit can move each other to forgive this sin.

Fourth, the marriage of brothers to from the marital relationship withdraw , with divorce is to meet his good strong heart, that he is innocent , holy, this practice is improper. He did not understand , divorce brought by a series of difficult problems , are inconceivable. for Both are great combat and scars. Brothers should think about themselves and then " holy "or with a sin nature. Since God can pardon on earth sinners , since God has released his own wife , why he could not forgive her?

Fifth, the brother of the idea is too simple hasty and reckless , but also should change your own personality.

In short , the couple the best find church pastor and marriage counselor for help , to understand marriage the meaning of in order to forgive each other , each other forgive , each other, and fix in marriage loopholes , from the love of Jesus Christ to forgive each other, to re-establish A satisfactory relationship of marriage .

Love can not be called "love"

2010-09-24T23:50:00.001-07:00

Falling in love is love it?

‧ psychiatrist Scott Peck Slovakia (M. Scott Peck) and the psychologist if the West Tower . Snow Fields (Dorothy Tennov) made the conclusion that the fundamental experience of love can not be called "love . " Dr. Tian Nuo experience made for the love of a new word "Limerrance", to distinguish her experience of the so-called true love . Bike Bo Shi concluded that the experience of falling in love can not be love , for three reasons .

First of all : falling in love is not a rational action , or a conscious choice. No matter how much we may want to fall in love, we do not to make it happen ; the other hand, we do not deliberately seek time , this experience may still come upon us. Often , which makes us an inappropriate time , with unlikely people fall in love.

Second : falling in love is not love , because it effortlessly . In love period, no matter what we do, rarely need to use self-discipline or a conscious effort . We call each other a long , expensive phone ; to see the flowers and other travel , gifts given and done, seem to not matter to us . Nature to instruct them as birds nest : the experience of the nature of love , and promote each other we did some strange and unusual things.

Finally : a love of the people , not really interested in nurturing each other's personal growth . " When we love , if you really want to ask what purpose ? that is to end his solitude , to achieve this result through marriage . " love experience, not to focus on their growth , do not pay attention to each other's growth and development. But it gives us a feeling you're done , that we no longer need to grow . On the contrary, we have at the peak of happiness in life , the only desire is to stay there ; of course, the people we love do not need to grow , because she is perfect . We only hope that she will continue to maintain its original perfection.

Love is love it?

Love , we tend to be contrary to our nature attracted to people , this may be " very different with the most repulsive attraction "in the relevant laws of physics . For example: lively outgoing person who likes to keep a cool head , quick action will appreciate the leisurely type , there are puzzling me the most is the cost-conscious people , often accompanied by spending the last generous person. People in love , there is always a misconception that his love is perfect ; and how people say , is irrelevant. However, when the waves died down emotional love , the couple returned to the real world , the differences between the two men out on the show . How many of us would ask: " Why do we get married? we always disagree . " peak in love , we always thought that two were in agreement (at least in every important things ) . So, the real world is really a love marriage, the tomb of it?

Where can one find true love ?

Ancient Greek on the "love" word is there are four different levels : the first word of love is Eros, refers to men and women "sex "in marriage is holy . The second love is Storge, natural affection refers to the love between family members , extended to the children by the husband and wife , relatives. The third love is Phileo, means " friendship . " The fourth love yes yes Agape, which is "Agape" is the sacrifice and dedication , unconditional, everlasting love. Want to know "love" , it must be God's "love "to understand , because " God is love "," We love because He first loved us ", we can not give other people do not have our own , because " love is From God "; the Bible 's " Love Song " is passed down through the ages of poems, is the best interpretation of love : " Love is patient and kind ; love is not jealous ; Love does not boast , not proud , Rude things , not for their own benefit, not easily provoked, thinks no evil people do not like injustice , but rejoices in the truth ; everything , always trusts , always hopes , always perseveres , Love never fails ... " ( I Corinthians Chapter 13 , section 4-8 )

To explore the mysteries of love

"New relations between the sexes "(The New Intimacy) and health author Judy Weiss (Judith Sherven, Ph.D. and James Sniechowski, Ph.D) put forward : that gender differences in contrast , is the hidden secret of true love Place , this love is waiting to be awakened and stimulated . If your determination, courage and will to improve the relationship between husband and wife get along , willing to abandon old unconstructive behavior, choosing a healthy interactive behaviors , you can be the difference between the two grow together into a catalyst , so that these differences Does not bother you, in fact , a close interaction between the new unhappy marriages can become a good couple more too!

" creative consciousness "(Conscious Creativity) is a "new relations between the sexes , " the authors designed a way to help couples face the reality , no longer evade the issue . Purpose is to find the couple together and create a new mode of communication , a kind of whatever and give each other a manner satisfactory to both . Focus on both spouses must be true to state the problem , and carefully listen to each other , respect each other's feelings , of which nine steps are as follows :

1 . definition
To express the real issues are bothering you , and as specific as possible .

2 . experience feelings
Clear and complete to tell each other how you feel , let the other have experienced and understand how you feel.

3 . Do not forget , you are really concerned about him
Remember : the harmonious relations between the sexes , as is crafted of mosaic art , which is composed of many materials to form the . In all of the issues in the relationship between you and your spouse is the most to be cherished .

4 . guard against self- abuse
When the relationship between them ring true meaning , please pay attention to your own feelings , do not let the negative patterns of behavior take you .

5 . to change their mind
Open the door of your heart , believe that any problems can be understanding , and a variety of different solutions . So you will not be caught resting on its laurels situation, despite arguments to each of the emotional gap between them dig deeper .

6 . assume responsibility
Ask themselves their own situation in the troubled years, it also should bear some responsibility? "One takes two to tango " , usually , the couple 's problem can not be caused only by one party to .

7 . to respect each other's differences
Remember each other and you're different, learning to understand your spouse as an independent entity , there are differences at all levels of office , you have to respect these differences, the position of standing on the other side to ideas , learning from the heart , the problem easier to solve .

8 . consciousness Innovation
Has been manipulated and enforced in person , you want to share in each other's mind what position , you should also put him in your heart the same location . Foster a new vision to appreciate and respect each of these personality traits .

9 . to seek win-win situation
Make a decision, remember that you are two different people , this decision is necessary to seek mutual benefits , not only for the unilateral vision . Decision problem is not who wins , the whole consultation process is focused on mutual respect and trust , so that husband and wife closer together, more grow .

If you are the past and the other half because there are differences of opinion , it finds that your relationship will never become a stalemate , please be sure to discourage this dangerous idea. The situation you are facing relationship usually means that you need to be adjusted , perhaps you need to do maintenance of interactive , or a change of engine oil , and only a dream -like love everything will be smooth , everything solved . Come on! Come on!

About
Pei-Fen Tsai current "Canada Campus Crusade for Christ " ministry director of China's network , the network responsible for editing and publishing the new beauty magazine , her husband Wang Daqing pastor of Christ in the Northern California Bay Area home the first pastor , education has three children . Please visit the "New Beauty "Browse more of her articles .

The myth of love

2010-09-24T00:35:00.000-07:00

In fact, love is not obsessed obsessed permanent . Love is indeed great, but this is just a process. Can not and will not have continuity . To successfully and intimate marriage is not an easy thing to do , you have to make efforts, efforts to maintain your love .

Let me take you back to the original that you just met , you can remember those days? You know , then you have another attraction , causing a spark . The spark sparked your love , your love.

Make your heart love the excitement of endless , candlelight dinners, lots to talk about the sweet , happy laughter , you both are immersed in the love wave peak ! you stick the extreme physical contact . Touch is like an electric shock even as captivating .

Love , you feel you match the right is simply great, love when you can not even speak a few hours , then tired . Do you think you are such a deep mutual understanding of each other , so to understand the mind . Other words have a degree , he was frank to you without reservation .

"I love that dress . "

"Today I am not happy at work . "

"I ran into the shoes of a stone . "

" Rabbit is a cartoon baby in my favorite role . "

Love is really fascinating and exciting, you think he observant , saying the sentence words are on your mind . Although , in fact not the case , but when you are in love , he said a single word is like the real thing .

So the fact that then?

In fact, love is not obsessed obsessed permanent . Love is indeed great, but this is just a process. Can not and will not have continuity . To successfully and intimate marriage is not an easy thing to do , you have to make efforts, efforts to maintain your love .

When in love period, how can you do? The difference between you and the living habits of different speed your crazy , your child has occupied your life. At this point, you must run your marriage. One way to help you well and you communicate with him .

One-way communication

Women can be straightforward , honest and direct way communication method , so that they open their hearts to speak, her husband . One-way communication is that you directly go to your husband , with his brief , tell the truth , with him you feel , think , what happened between you tell him.

With your husband says he does not want to answer . Just ask him to listen ; let him have time to think about what you say , when he was ready, then told him to share with you his response . You finished, stopped , wait do not rush out loud , at least wait five minutes before continuing.

Why? There are two reasons:

1 , a man is not immediately respond . They need time to figure out their feelings on a matter and ideas . If it is about their own problems, they even need more time.

2 , men feel the pressure a woman will always remain silent. When they feel under control , they will to silence against you , so you know you can do nothing to force them to speak up.

One-way communication methods may just do the same . However, common methods used to force a woman he immediately replied, absolutely not work. Try a one-way communication, operating in the heart after your marriage , your love will be wonderful to reproduce , in my experience , which not only makes more profound feelings , and will forever have the love it .

The mood is very complicated!!!!!!

2010-09-19T01:47:00.000-07:00

People grow up to be imperceptible feel very vexed, also don't know why, while the heart is uncomfortable. Sometimes really quick Armageddon. But also will hate the world.

We are the world's trip!
Vanity of vanities! All is vanity.

Self Blessing

2010-09-08T00:36:00.000-07:00

When God created the universe and created man and woman , the first thing I did was bless them . In addition to all human beings between heaven and earth to enjoy the rich , but also human responsibility and care given to the negative , it is necessary we can really control the land . Shows that access to the so-called real blessing , not just idle nothing to do , but to pay attention to the environment and things , and make the care management responsibilities , while also working hard , enjoying the delicious and sweet .

So true blessing if we are to ourselves, in addition to first understand their precious value in the eyes of God , good build optimistic, positive, and confident direction in life , we have to do more substantial in all respects , not only make your life Continuous improvement , regularly updated and can bring benefit to others or things . If therefore we desire to be blessed , is not banking on all day long in life , always the element of surprise to encounter " honored person "or" adventure , " On the contrary , it touches to keep blessing themselves, so that my mind filled with kerosene lamps , not only Enjoy enriching the lives of others can be warm and light , good to be a blessing for people transfer and became a live environment for every blessing .

Appropriate blessings

But sometimes we all anxiously looking forward to , can bring their spouses or children of those blessings , but often had touched avenues of frustration , in because the other party not appreciate the attitude , or a strong rebound in the sense of intense sorrow sorry Time , may wish to consider our wishes for a spouse or children are a blessing , and whether their personality , interests, and to match it ?

One of the Bible 's first Zuya the Israelis , when he was 12 when his son blessing is in accordance with each of the " blessing " for their blessing , that is, according to their different personality and behavioral characteristics Were to wish for their future and the future . So we should believe that when God created us , have already taken down a special blessing bestowed , because these blessings , we all have different temperaments , preferences , and talents, we will also take these features for our Themselves, their family , friends, and even exposed to the environment and matters directly or indirectly, in real terms to bring blessings .

Assistance and support

With this knowledge , we then will not be easily made under the vision , attempting to mold their spouses as a "model sir " or " standard of the wife , " the sons and daughters will not be strong default behavior of the blueprint of life or wanton Press maltreatment . But can use a grateful heart , learn to observe the exploration of God in them, there are a special blessing and gift , and then often positive words to encourage and help them strive to play strong points ; and when their fear, frustration , to cheer the provision of effective assistance and support.

While many of the narrow world view , so long as to have beautiful , intelligent, knowledge , and everything goes well, is to embrace blessing . It was all alone but also more broad vision and wisdom , can sometimes To know the weaknesses and deficiencies , but under the make-up of God 's blessings , the so-called " blessing in disguise , no bad thing " , not that what this means?

Blessing from God 's nature , and " help "and" help "is the most under God "substantial "and" blessing ", so if we can full of gratitude , to look at themselves and the environment, will find In fact, all the most " real " blessing , had little by little spread to every corner of our walking path . Also relied on these blessings , we can have active lives, capable of life and abundance of love , God and the world to sing out , " Lord Blessings "and praise praise chant .

you a monthly income of only 2,000 yuan, to teach you have a good life

2010-09-06T02:01:00.000-07:00

Suppose your monthly income is only 2,000 yuan , you can get by quite well . I can help you put money into five . The first 800 , second 400 yuan , the third 100, fourth 200 , fifth 500.

The first , used for living expenses . S all living expenses , can be assigned to 27 yuan per day . 5 yuan breakfast , lunch, a snack or other ( control 7 neurons ), dinner 10 yuan , 5 yuan pocket money there (which you sometimes do not have to spend 5 yuan , to stay up , or pocket money someday to spend a few days , It will not upset your plans ) . This day of food , about 800 yuan per month . However, if you are young , the body does not yet have too many problems , this recipe has too much enough , neither the level of many outdoor workers .

Second , to make friends , expand your interpersonal circle . This is off the . Your telephone can be used up 100. Can treat twice a month , 150 yuan each time , in fact, only you and your friends if two people are generally not so much. Please who? Remember, please than you are thinking or better condition than you , or you need to appreciate the feelings of the person or you good .

Each month, insisted the guests, one year, your circle of friends should be expanded, but will also bring you the value of the intangible , and your reputation , influence , added value is to enhance the image and good , and generous .

Third , to learn . 50 -100 per month per can be used to buy books . Much money , buy the book should read , learn to learn to use the spirit. Each book, after reading , put it into their own language tell people to listen , to share with others can increase your credibility and enhance the affinity , encountered more deeply than you , you also get a lot of Experience . Sometimes do not need to buy 100 books , the extra part of the first deposit up bar, add up after a year can apply for a general interest classes, think they can add value , but also the knowledge to like-minded friends. Oh, this is a good thing !

Fourth , for tourism, travel reward yourself at least once a year . Growth of life from the constant life experiences . Participate in the kind of free exercise of the tour, moved into youth hostels , the earth is not big , go out every year a few years , you can plug into the red on the map , and many good memories , a life force , more enthusiasm and Energy to their work. Do not be afraid to spend money travel more than 2,400 yuan a year , enough to place you go to a lot . Sometimes off-season to travel to spend 2,400 yuan can not be half !

Fifth , the most critical , to invest , be sure to vote in the affirmative to make money , but also to protect the area . Stock : 500 basically can not enter the market, and too risky ; Fund: relatively stable , but too little revenue , while there are also potential losses . Insurance: definitely earned the only drawback is the return on a longer time, because you mean to borrow money to insurance companies , and insurance companies also schedule your interest, but the longer , more profitable . There is risk everywhere, if your life where some accident in which your income is reduced, if you do not invest in insurance, your life would be a mess , and likely to be in vain in front of the investment Insurance, in addition to access to income , there are life support , health security , even if someday God with you a joke , you need not be afraid , because if you choose insurance products , you need not worry. Both insurance companies will give you consolation money , you will wrap the rest did not pay premiums. In this way, you will neither disrupt his plans , not based on 20 years has worked hard for your parents to add more pressure . 500 yuan per month , you can choose many of the more comprehensive insurance products . If the choice of insurance products do not have 500 yuan per month , then the extra to save up a year later , you can conduct a small business , small business is safe , open an Taobao account to wholesale something to Sold , not much loss of anyway , making it not only earn money , but also made a self-confidence and courage to do things also earn experience . Earn more , you can begin increasing the amount of the purchase of long-term investment plans , so their early to get a long-term protection , to keep themselves and their families in the future, no matter what happens , have a sufficient funds to take care of , Quality of life will not fall. What's more, insurance is not tax all income the only products inside the actual one count , more than any other income more .

Well, this boil for a year, second year 2000 dollars if you still get the income that you have not had ( perhaps you get the cash or 2000 1000 , but there is insurance, where the dividend , counted or the ratio More than 2000 's ) have enough shame alive to see what brand of tofu rather hard, buy a one point , with head against it . Haha !

Monthly income below 3,000 yuan , must be part-time money , do not already have limited income, is also a strong character , pick and choose , this unwilling to do , that is not interested . Income is not high, must be very hard , try to go with the sale of related work , such as real estate , shopping promotions, leaflets , and all these are very good part-time job , not only get to know a lot of valuable people , but also Can exercise their own information-gathering capabilities and marketing skills . This is a lifetime of wealth . All employers have experienced a cumulative process, you dry them for later when the big boss is prepared for .

Ah clothes , shoes, ah , this year you have to buy as little as possible . All the best to buy through your part-time earn . As a way to reward yourself . Extra time to make money , remember to buy a gift for your love , thank him / her to support your financial plan . Very frankly told him / her, why you are so thrifty , tell him / her of your dreams and efforts.

Businessmen who need help everywhere , part-time help them to do something , to hone their own will, eloquence , and ability to work it, with your financial skills, the second year , your income to at least 5,000 yuan . Minimum should be 3,000 yuan , or your income has not keep up with inflation, the growth of it .

No matter how much your income , remember divided into five . Increase investment in health , the body is always useful to increase social investment , and expand your network of contacts , to increase the investment in learning , strengthen your self-confidence , increase investment in tourism , expand your horizons , in particular, to increase the future Investment , increase your income , can not boil a lifetime , to the old, and have to work , or through the bad .

To maintain this balance, gradually you will start a large number of surplus . This is a virtuous circle of life plans . Body will be getting better and better , get more nutrition and care. Friends will be more and more , store many valuable connections at the same time , you have the means to participate in the very high end of the training so that all aspects of their own full-fledged , broad thinking , pattern of large , harmonious personality . And you also can gradually realize their various dreams , buy their needs of a house, car , and to the children of the future fund to prepare an adequate education , let the children win at the starting line .

Life is designed career is planned , well-being can be prepared . Can now start . When you poor , less at home , more outside. When you rich , to many at home and less outside. This is the art of living . Too poor , the money is spent for others, the rich , the money is spent to yourself. Many people have done upside down.

So poor , do not care about , better than others . When rich , learn to let other people for their good . Better for themselves . Make their own contribution to the poor out , to let people use . Fu , should own a good collection , careful not to use others indiscriminately . These wonderful way of life , and few can understand .

If your income is only 1,500 yuan , then you divide by the above , flexibility in the allocation . I can not believe , but it must believe in yourself and only pay for the operation to harvest tomorrow, enjoy the future ~ !

Poor time and money to anyone . When the rich , spend money to enjoy themselves . When the poor must be generous , when the rich , do not parade one's wealth was . Life has resumed a simple , quiet has returned .

Young is not a fault , no fear of poverty . Know how to develop their own , know what valuables , to understand what the investment , know where to save , which is the key to the whole process . Freeze buy clothes , buy less , but you can buy some great taste . Eating out less , eat the treat , to please , please more than their dreams , more thought, more effort.

Once the needs have enough money , the biggest cost is to use your income , achieve your dream , to open your wings and dare to dream , to make a different journey through life .

Song of a Wanderer - eternal in the call

2010-09-03T01:03:00.000-07:00

1, the authenticity of the existence of God
Up under the atheism of intellectuals , have similar large development on the basic concepts of human knowledge , that is, when humanity is in the original stage of low productivity , people lightning , floods , earthquakes and other natural phenomena fear , and thus began to worship the Thunder , Water God , god, to God , that engendered religion. With the development of productive forces , understanding of the nature of human ability to continuously improve , to understand all this is a natural phenomenon , not even r, supernatural deities , thus confirming the belief of atheism . In other words, theism is the product of the period of human ignorance , atheism is after the period of human civilization into the inevitable end . Therefore, the highly educated intellectuals who view atheism is taken for granted and are proud of .

  With the country's opening up more and more Chinese students and scholars to the West to study and work. The face of both the United States a world-class science and technology standards , but is dominated by theistic thinking country , our dismay and confusion can be imagined. But let us come to a large 180 -degree turn to face the disdain of theism we have in the past , both emotionally and rationally , are very difficult. I am living in America in the first eight , nine , and resolutely resist the theism , and never any contact with Christianity and religion .

  However, the existence of God is of man's subjective will of the objective facts. The existence of God 's attitude of solidarity with everyone , no one can avoid . Where the pursuit of truth, and truth constantly revised their views before the people , sooner or later will recognize the real existence of God . English philosopher Francis Bacon (Francis Bacon) has repeatedly pointed out that a little bit of philosophy will guide people toward atheism and materialism of the error ; great philosophy but will come back to the introduction of religion 1 . Not only as Newton , Einstein believed that God so great masters (although Einstein did not believe God is bit lattice ), even pioneers of Darwinian Huxley (Thomas Henry Huxley) admitted: " From a purely philosophical Standpoint, atheism is untenable "2.

In recent years, through repeated study , reflection and struggle , I gave up atheism view , willingly accepted theism and accept Jesus Christ as my personal Savior and dominate . Now, I will speak about aspects of the authenticity of the existence of God , to share with you .

  " Bible " book of the < Genesis > The first sentence is, "In the beginning God created the heaven and earth . " This is a great claim . Because there is no need to prove God , but also the limits of reason can not prove. But God so loved the world , under the inspiration Teci people can know him. God's revelation can be divided into general revelation and special revelation two categories.

Young age

2010-09-01T19:40:00.001-07:00

Sunday dinner , the family has not been fully seated , people first began to eat . Year-old granddaughter Étienne Seeing this, it began to worry , she said: "We do not pray ! "She worried that we might forget to pray before dinner thank rice .

Her concern is a good marker . This represents a very young age of Étienne began to form good habits , it is the parents to teach children in a part of life . This example : the habit of small details can help to see the value of prayer and Shane , which the wisdom of life , let her growing up years of proven infinitely useful.

In this hostile to the Christian era , it is necessary to nurture the faith of children and young is not easy . Parents have always wanted to find a best way to help your baby trust in the Savior , he had discussed the joy of life. Maxim that nature by teaching parents and target children is an important guide is the key ( Proverbs1Chapter8Section). In these things : such as listening to the wisdom (2Chapter2Section ), speaker seeking intelligent (2Chapter3Section ), understand the fear of the Lord (2Chapter5Section ), do not forget the teachings of their parents (3Chapter1Section ), attend to know understanding (4Chapter1Section ) , when parents teach after teaching , and teach children the words of these retained their heart , these are also naturally be used (4Chapter1-4Section).

Do you have children or grandson? Teach them into the wisdom of life, never too early .JDB

God delivered the child at the time,
Teach them to love the Lord more ,
Trained upright life,
Subject to compliance with His Word .Sper

Always knocking the years

2010-09-01T01:07:00.000-07:00

When will the transfer season
Become a moaning your joints
When , years of silent percussion
Luo Cheng Wang deep cross your face wrinkles
When , a while the fear of loneliness
Quietly from your damp eyes Emission
When you do not know
Do not know when ... ...
Happy birthday to you Happy birthday to you ... ... ... ... singing, candlelight , fresh cream cakes are woven into the joy of your growth .However, in addition to celebrating this day , are not the slightest gratitude : you want to have your education , middle of the night hold you ask your parents.

How long , fashionable gap to isolate you and your parents .How long , you do not know the parents have gray hair , until that day , catch a glimpse of the parents in the hair , jet black pigment , terrible Phi flow in the parent 's face , you just know : Dad , Mom old.
How long have you not noticed , or nagging parents smile , the endless pile out wrinkles .Until that day, You take the hand of their parents , only to find that knocking out the rough withered years before they thought of the bottle of moisturizer to the parents to send .

By this time, you only know the parents of students with the transfer season rheumatism , arthritis, disease-free for no reason the original was not moan .Passage of time, parents are old, you know roughly what it called filial piety and what is old and what is limited .
Christians and their parents , love their parents . They have a limited life and endless days, know and understand the one eternal God : Jesus Christ .The face of years , the face of aging, they thank God , because He said: " I am the resurrection and the life I have . "

When parents enter old age, sigh to say : the useless old man , or your own middle age , old age , ever think that one care about you, look after your God.

Christian courage to face life, enjoy life , to accept aging, because they know that this is the gift of God , is a to him, into the eternal journey.

If you want to have Christian as comfortable with the satisfaction of joy and Grasp of aging , it can do to make such a prayer to God : "Dear Jesus , I admit that life is limited, I admit I made many mistakes , many of the crime . I Willing to accept you as Savior of my life , in charge of my life , whether young , whether it is old age, help me to know you better . seeking the name of the Lord Jesus Christ . Amen . " ( A sincere wish they mean)

Why Can't You Find the Information You Want From a Reverse Phone Lookup Service?

2010-08-31T01:40:00.001-07:00

It can be very frustrating when you are looking for information and you cannot find it. This is more so the case when you have paid for information and the service that you used simply hasn't delivered. This is a common occurrence for services such as the reverse phone lookup service and there are plenty of reasons as to why it is not working well for you.

First of all the reverse phone lookup service is a very helpful one to so many people and you should not abandon all hope of using it again and finding answers simply because you have had one or two bad searches. Let's say for example that the cell phone number that you have for whatever reason is a prepaid one. There is no monthly payment and no contract therefore it can easily be passed from friend to friend, doing favors, leading to incorrect information from the reverse phone lookup service that you have used.

The information that you have found might be from the very first owner of the prepaid cell phone number when the phone was first activated but since that point, it could have been passed to many different people which is why these kinds of phones are hard to keep track of especially for the reverse phone lookup service companies.

What happens if the cell number that you had is a contract one but it isn't registered to the person that it is meant to be? This could be in the case of a parent getting contract phone for their child because they are not old enough to themselves just yet or a friend passing the contract over to another person but keeping it in his or her name? These are again, very common occurrences and valid reasons as to why the reverse phone lookup service hasn't provided the information that you are looking for.

All in all, finding incorrect information isn't technically the fault of the reverse phone lookup service companies - they just pay for the information that the cellular companies have so don't take it out on them. Just put it behind you and try another service.

A man came and he was wrestling until dawn

2010-08-24T02:38:00.000-07:00

Complete surrender to James , not his own , but God came with his wrestling . The purpose of wrestling is to subdue opponents with strength , until he could not move , hand over to the winner to concede defeat so far . Jacob powerful than most people , God still conquer him. When he refused to surrender , God " touched " him one . By the touch , he did a great effort again things can not be completed .

Thigh is the most powerful body , and is one the most appropriate symbol of the natural strength . Between you and I may be stubborn and Jacob 's not the same. Ambition , bragging , self-serving - everyone has a stubborn personality . However, should this tenacious personality rubbed off on each of us , the key is a kind of experience . On the surface, James appears to have been defeated, but God says that he and God and with men are victorious . This is when we hit in complete surrender to God after the hit , what happened .

The face of weak

2010-08-22T20:42:00.001-07:00

After the main letter a long time , I can not accept the weak and even Christians will fall at all , until low tide themselves into the ultimate spiritual grace the Lord that came out before the original Christians did not understand the privilege to avoid emotional The wave Folding , ups and downs in life , and the human world Gully sill . Whenever Christians are by grace alone through life .

Read Mark chapters 35-41 , Jesus actually rang the ship in rough sleeping , previously thought it was a performance of Jesus calm and courage of your convictions . Recently read and found Jesus in the day to find that many people had on board to lecture (available 4 1), speaking for a long time , there is no time to alight and rest (can be 4 36) , even may not even dinner And eat, hurry to the other side to save . So, he tired of sleeping in the monstrous waves in the wake , would it not be more in line with the scene at that time ? Ma can be moving brush strokes to write such great Son, Jesus also tired , what about us?

"The biggest crime is not falling , but fell to the ground refuse to resurgence . " who preach the gospel to China , do students work Adeney said . Andy Ji the " Adeney transfer ─ ─ go all life " , it closely Adeney the idea that human weakness and the idea of God's great to write , writing Adeney weakness and God 's grace Enough . This book is printed on the title page Adeney , express : "If the opportunity was extraordinary joy , but , far more than can be assigned to the task . because if anything complete, clear applause must go to him , not yours I am ! " Because understand this, Adeney know that although he is weak, but charismatic enough , also showing the generosity of a treat . Later, an old sister to see Adeney said: "The party down for a week , I found you most like Jesus ! "

Win-win -law of the Road ( 5 )

2010-08-19T19:58:00.001-07:00

Today to talk about "and the mother gains an enemy of the good ideas . " As the saying goes , " there are relations right, all right there relationship, everything is all about relationships , " the phrase used in -law relationship , there are two different meanings. The first meaning , as the wife , if you have a close relationship with her husband , that your wife 's feelings is no problem , you would not have worried her husband was snatched away her mother 's sense of insecurity , but you will be more Happy mother 's affection for her husband to enjoy .

Therefore, the relationship between business -law inside the first well-managed and the relationship between husband and wife as a priority . If the mother-child relationship as a business priority , not only no way to really solve the problem -law , but most likely upset a good marriage. So first learn to operate a good relationship between husband and wife , husband and wife relationship between the business well, you and a good relationship with your husband , your mother told you the relationship will be a good deal . The second meaning , the meaning of this sentence , if you and your mother to establish friendly relations as close as mother and daughter , you have little in -laws, the contradiction between the very easy to resolve, not create barriers or rancor .

There are 10 strokes of good ideas , some experts and some coming , especially after his wife felt they practice good effect, and that 10 is the magic weapon against his wife .

The first one : you want to embodied in the mother before her husband 's love and respect , but also let her mother know that you love her and respect her husband as her . For example , when the family table to eat , pay attention to good food folder to the mother , not only their children and husbands, when the family went out to play , to remember also invited to go out with her mother , she was not too cumbersome . At the same time , learn to encourage the elderly to pursue her interest in activities, to make meaningful life, she felt that she was not alone.

The second measure , when the wife 's do not often call him in front of her mother 's husband , you always call him , when the mother 's certainly not happy , will be angry with you . Do not quarrel with her mother before and her husband accused her husband or not , to say in front of her husband 's good word , because each mother did not want other people to speak ill of his son .
The third measure , the mother must be magnanimous , that you are willing to share with her mother all of you to share your house with her mother , grandmother always welcome to come live with you . Share your money , as the wife 's mother liked to buy some more things to remember birthdays or holidays, give a red envelope or buy a decent gift , and said a few words blessing . Because every mother- son was raised hard , do not want to be a wife away after the wedding , there must be tolerant of the heart to treat your mother , to be able to share with your mother ;

Fourth trick : If there are contradictions between her husband and her mother , grandmother must stand side , comforting her mother criticized her husband , many mother- son would think that some change is because of the wife , you must let her mother know that you and she is On the same side , you have a difficult time in the future , she will help you.
Fifth move : in -law and husband not intimate before , that would cause her mother 's jealousy , because her mother is to hold a big small husband , but his son grow up , how many times will kiss my mother 's face? So pay attention , you want to shut the door when intimacy .
Sixth move : should the same mother as his mother to take care of , how to treat their own mother , how would like to treat your mother , but to be more nice to her double . Before their mother can sometimes temper did little tricks , but the mother should be treated appropriately , because it may cause dissatisfaction , that time will affect you and your husband 's feelings.
Seventh move : in case of conflicts between mother-and daughter , no matter who is wrong , as the wife of a certain first patient, not against each other, what her mother said , simply listen, and so calm after the two sides , and further explore the causes and resolution of conflicts Method , this way, the mother 's face full , will also try to make up for mistakes , and you will be in the eyes of her mother is a good general understanding wife .
Eighth trick : for a wife 's to sweet , to learn more and feeling with her mother on the exchange , or Chinese Lunar New Year usually considerate when sending small gifts , this can eliminate the gap between between -law , weekday to more than On the mother being, I have to sweet , lots of talk about family matters , if the case involves child rearing issues , allowing her satisfaction , mother- daughter sweet heart make sweeter .
Ninth trick : Do not have a problem and her mother , husband, soon to complain , so will only increase her husband's distress , may make your relationship more complicated , and you want your grandmother to communicate more , and her husband Between these and her mother happy about the thing , so your husband will be more sure you get along with capacity , will be more value you, because you are a rare and wonderful wife.
Last resort : If mother is not unreasonable old lady , you're going she said, you let her know that you and she are her favorite son, the two women . The relationship between the two of you will affect the happiness of her son , the son of sad if you want live , we can the tragedy , the war continued Dabu Wan , but the mother does not want his son because the mother-and daughter of Contradictions between her son has not had a good day . When the wife and mother to be saying these words , he must be in a polite , a gentle and respectful manner to conduct a thorough and she said, enlighten -law , at least she loves her son 's heart is some hope that her son live Happy happy happy for his wife to be very wise to open solution .
More than 10 strokes to conclude , in the hope sisters there to help , in the business -law relationship , the wife was only asked if the report can be hard not to receive the spirit , always seeking peace of mind , try to play the role of yourself , if What are wronged , as long as the couple mind, mutual understanding , and finally you can see the day drawing clouds , and if both husband and wife can make her mother feel better after my son get married I know how to respect , honor me, take care of me , this Mother can be very secure, their families will certainly be more harmonious relationship , more and more beautiful .
Finally give you a warm Tip: love is not jealous , not to boast , not proud , not easily angered, are willing to humbly serve each other and their families , know how to self- reflection, careful control of his temper , so that between the cause -law injury Forgive people 's fault , it is his glory , may we all become knowledgeable person.

Win-win -law of the Road ( 4 )

2010-08-19T19:53:00.000-07:00

Families to happiness -law relationship between the critical -laws get along great need among the grateful hearts to each other , if each can appreciate each other's strengths , the way they treat each other certainly will be very healthy, very harmonious , very In love .

Everyone can make a wise wife , to rebuild -law relationship. A wife from Beijing , in her 10 years of marriage , 6 years between husband and wife are living with her mother because of incompatible and painful , but after his wife became a Christian , she accepted Bible teaching , so she determined to start from the relationship between management and her mother . She is between what rehabilitation -law relationship? As she and her husband married a 10th anniversary luncheon in front of all her family and friends before , she publicly read a letter to her mother 's gratitude. In the letter which she wrote : "My mother has many advantages , there are a lot of good moral character , Qinjianchijia , diligent , loving , tidy, burned the cook , etc. ... ... " In the letter, which thanked her mother , his own Son of character education was outstanding, and give her such a good life companion . When she was sending you this letter of gratitude to the mother , when read out , the presence of the mother and her daughter 's heartfelt words have been touched by this . Her mother was really very excited and moved . The mother will go after holding the wife 's hand . Since then the mother of this daughter of the stigma . The daughter-in- this -law relationship between the effort to rebuild , repair taken a good step. Now -law relationship between them is very good . Because the letter from this Thanksgiving , the wife often to see the advantages of her mother , praised her, thanks her . Mother also changed in another way , she also learned how to learn to appreciate her daughter . More praise and less criticism ; more gratitude , not resentment .
Hope that when the wife 's mother and began to think about now , your mother and your wife 's body in the end what kind of advantages ? Think about the same as , or even write them down . Sincere appreciation of her, thank her. As a result, their relationship certainly has a wonderful transformation .As a mother , if the wife has done wrong place , do not chatter in front of her is not , otherwise you son and daughter- although a lot of things to do , you will still provoke angry wife . The best way is to give young wife to be a role model . To wife to look over , so that daughter to see a good example of her mother , she would change overnight , learn good behavior her mother . This is the mother to learn , do not publicly scolded her not to embarrass his wife , it would be more serious -law relationship , but to properly communicate in private . Sensible mother would say, our life is a learning process , when I was younger , I was the same. So what these errors are not constantly learning will progress .
If the friction between the wife and mother , no matter who is right , when the wife 's face and do not contradict her mother , also not against each other, thought he was talking , the mother said she was not scolded . Doing temporary wife 's to avoid this contradiction , no matter what your mother said , what kind of words used to stimulate you, You just compressing your mouth first . Afterwards , and so both calm , and go with the mother of the reasons for conflict and resolution. Some comments can get her husband to talk to her mother , said the aim is to resolve conflicts , so her mother would be more willing to accept . Because you did not contradict her mother in person and gave her mother a full face . After her mother thought it would be to make up their own fault . And your mother 's eyes will be a general care , care for their families , and respect for the elders of a good wife .
The Bible, I Corinthians Chapter 13 1 reads: If I speak in dialect , and of angels, but have not love , I am become as sounding gong , cymbal . Let us learn to love homework , peer in love .In addition to the other side should not be in front of the other party is not beyond reproach , and do not in front of your friends and family and outsiders about mother and daughter are not , because it will certainly spread to other ears . In this case, their relationship will be worse. If the opposite is often praised in front of their friends and family -law and daughter , this reached the ears of the other party will certainly play a very wonderful effect , mother and daughter 's mind will very happy , they will be each other's mutual Respect . There will be live in harmony with each other day .
A wise wife will often praise her grandmother 's wisdom and talent , sometimes we take as a child with her mother to coax her happy . In fact, if your mother , whining troublesome , please do not bore all the mothers love their children do not have any good ideas , are such whining , but their love is true, From the heart , this is something we come to cherish . Often praise the wise wife to mother , often praise the benefits of her mother . I hope we as mother and as wife , and think about your mother , your wife is worth what you go to praise her to appreciate her , to encourage her . Every day from today to say if the praise , then their relationship will improve.
The Bible says: "Love is not counting people's evil . " live in -law when we must remember that the other's weaknesses to God , not in front of everybody scolded her not, not to embarrass her , to learn to forgive each other . If you do not count other people's evil , you are to calculate the good of others , often other benefits in my heart , and make it say so loud and hard to open mouth in their heart , learn to speak the words of affirmation and praise . Let your relationship get more moisture .

He believed God is the traffic in

2010-08-18T20:50:00.000-07:00

God's faithfulness , not only in our lives give us great encouragement to the faith of God is our life , has brought great challenges. Traffic over the previous chapter , in which God's attributes , some are alone some of his own , can not share with us . But we thank the Lord ! In God's attributes inside , some of what he is willing to share with us . God willing we took part with his holiness . God is against every child of God , God, what a hope , we are also partaker of His faithfulness . We are all God's steward , steward God 's requirements? Corinthians there told us: " it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful . " ( 2 Corinthians 4 ) is that God requires our loyalty ( faithfulness ) .

Four chapters in Matthew 20 , where we can see that God "who is faithful and wise servant "( 45 ) . Five chapters in Matthew 20 , where we hope is that one day we can for our Lord said: " thou good and faithful servant . " ( 21,23 section ) in the Revelation which God The promise : "You Be faithful until death , I will give you the crown of life . " ( 2 10) how the hope of God , God's children are credible . I am a little burden , we should learn today Zenmeyangzuo a loyal person , starting from a small school .

God created an orderly universe is how God created the universe is how the faithful . 've Been to Yellowstone Park, told us that there was a anything? Fountain called old Faithful . Even this way of creature , can be faithful . Christians today do you and I , we today have a wrong idea , we think the anointing of the people obey , do not need any rules , without any order, I have moved, I am pleased to pray the prayer . Do not move , I do not pray . I have moved on reading the Bible, I have not touched I do not read the Bible ; I was a little touched by the ministry to do something tomorrow if I am unhappy , I will not do , and then a very spiritual saying: "There is no grace Ointment led . " I am not saying we should not follow the anointing , but do not forget , our God is a faithful hope in our people in our lives today, the most basic little things , our faithful it?

I read through your life with faithfulness is not faithful ? Several part-time evening meal was to lose his temper , there had never seen such a person? Seen , is not it ! We are reading, reading twice a week , Friday the first time , Sunday reading time, we call this faithful it? Brothers and sisters , do not say that in God 's house , in today's era, if the trains are not punctual , the train to collision . If the aircraft is not punctual , but also a big problem , big problem , do not know how many losses . I do not know how you come together like the case , I rarely see a gathering of brothers and sisters party on time . We must learn loyalty, starting from a small school .

Brothers and sisters in China , if it is 10 o'clock meeting , you go to nine o'clock , too late , no seat , stood outside it! Those brothers and sisters , no cars are allowed , some riding bicycles , there are brothers and sisters is the bus number 11 ( walking ) , not five minutes , ten minutes of the road , one or two hours of the road ! I deeply feel that North American Christians , in the faithful on this issue , we must repent . This is not about events of these challenges. We are against the Lord , our reading, our prayers , our ministry , we are not reliable ? We are faithful it? If we have not been faithful in little things , who the event over to us? We are in the couple's relationship , we loyal to it? We do against our faithful sons and daughters ? We work with the faithful against the church do ? We are faithful brothers and sisters against it? We are against our Lord , how we need His mercy on us. Ask Him to have mercy on us , let us make a further , good and faithful servant !

Pro old womanizers ?

2010-08-18T03:05:00.001-07:00

In fact the Bible gives us to see , people not only in our lives, there should be a role model , a benchmark put in their hearts , and as we age and our families were in the church 's social level , this example should also be Pluralism , diversity , and older persons aged look.

Now looks very young and the elderly , as long as you are willing to pay are willing to modify , you can really dressed up 've got a Peugeot . Why should the flesh , the fat, so many thoughts , what is often because he is old, not a preparation . In fact, " older old " the Bible says , 『』 white hair is the glory of the elderly . Bible said, the elderly , of course, sub- modern truth , but also particularly the elderly Bible more . Genesis in particular the elderly and more old when Abraham What is it like ? Isaac old, old Jacob , Moses, old age, old Samuel , David elderly , those with a servant of God , there is a time when old age . They are old and has been proposed to the Bible , meaning ready for us to do an example . Paul , said he was an old Bible . Peter , John , that really old Peter , old John, is also our example .

From Genesis through to Revelation , you can see young , youth, prime of life , old age, continuous cycle in which each stage, each book which are not the same model as our benchmark . If you do not bring the Bible to your example in my heart , that when you go to the elderly , very poor . Miserable , coupled with dim eyes , could not see , Isaac pretty lucky , regardless of his eyes clouded could not see what his problem, he has a very simple solution , you can call him son . The Bible says , Isaac old, dim eyes can not see , called Esau to his son . Now the children , even if you call a not necessarily come to a moment he left .

Into the bushes today talked about when they are old subjectIn particular, the brothers do , you have to look to the heart , a lot of things in mind you can not tell that , you have to look inside the heart , the physical things of the flesh always gotta own account, In such things , you can not always feel that she is sorry . Many men of a fatal weakness in my heart , he felt his wife was not pretty enough, not enough to stimulate this area , with such a heart , and his eyes are looking at things , often round and round on him . Do not say we have the chance , especially when you get into the later years , not some pipe , you may be a little economic base , and you have time , Satan will certainly be to attack you.

Now the man on the age, this matter are not willing to talk in the newspapers spread out , the proportion of the community this type of news is rather more than the proportion of young people, surpasses it . He said that though old age, but his heart inside of debauchery , often worse than the young . Young people do not so much depressed , apart from depression, discontent , and environmental constraints , there are decades of fantasy plot there.

Bible tell us , the past, we follow their own desires, with the world look like Ben unrestrained debauchery that day is enough . In the church do not speak in this respect , the community on the teachings of many in this regard . What is the life between husband and wife bed first , how the pursuit of more happiness, more happy , you be careful of such things . The physical things , eyes of lust , he is not endless . The more you go to feed him, he is more respect to be there . Old, in a marriage which , in the church, which are intended to regulate their own heart center . Deep down, you should have some of the alert , there are some constraints , be ready for the coming of the kingdom of God . You have to learn to enjoy the joy of the Holy Spirit , to the pursuit of holiness , justice and peace . Which is to understand some things you should be addicted to something , what the hand on the plow looking back , that is, even though you know you have saved , knew that he was prepared to see the Lord , your soul is eternal life in , but you still Often intended for your body , you often in the physical things , allow yourself to do too much heart for the physical arrangements. Clothes , have food, a wife when she is ! If people do not know how early to avoid a veteran into the bush and into the already eye, waiting for you to go to avoid the old Pro is no use .

How kind we are not obedient to the passions of line , first of all , you have to learn how to obedience in the Spirit . If you know the joy of evangelism , service to be the joy of the Lord , the Bible and sweet , you are more likely to leave this world offers. If you know that you and your wife can live happy with how kind of you to be a good service with the Lord , there is a very happy family life, and this is enough . To keep this matter thankful heart, so you go to the old, you probably have prepared better. When you were young did not keep the gift of celibacy , but really to keep you single or a similar situation when the equipment should observe celibacy , which is something we Christians today , especially those who do brothers , to do missionary in Inside the church service to be more people to learn .

I heard a well-known American pastor , Rev. Billy Graham to a 80 -year-old , his sister every time as long as there is a priest of his office talking with him , he must be a third party present , this is a very important thing . But outside of preparedness is not really the solution , clean hearts more than anything else . It is clean inside the heart through your marriage from the inside , are met, be thankful , be with the Lord , as your capital in these areas , so naturally when you go to the old , not old and into the bushes a Pro .

She escaped unscathed seventeen

2010-08-17T03:06:00.000-07:00

In mine when I preach, one day, a long old niang sniveling ran and told me that her daughter of seventeen for several days old shut in the room, not eat not to cry, ask her why she refused to say. Finally brother died badgering ask her, she said: "I will dead, eat school what use?"

Later, the girl put things worked told her mother, didn't know the girl in the class reunion a fortune-teller, her father is a very famous fortune-teller, the students learned from his father's day, this class teacher just leave, the girl asked the students show jumping ability, show for several classmates is good fortune, and the elders of his daughter's, she didn't want to let her, but other classmates nudge labradors said: "that's ok! Fun! And don't money, afraid what?" She also curious and asked her to calculate. Results the fortune-teller for her past classmate say very accurate, the girl asked: "that I?" The students also calculate long and gave you a pained look and said to her: "sorry! No later, destined to you has a lot of 17 years old, I'm afraid not, you unscathed."

The elders of his daughter on 17 that will die, sit in the room, don't eat not to go to school. Listen, my heart grows old niang said: "this prayer to the Lord has been fate into blind child, how do I help the child? Ask god to give me wisdom and chance."

Later, the old niang back to his daughter, and I asked her, your classmate not only tell you a thing of the past, and told her seventeen has a big doomed, but you escape this isn't it? She nodded and began to cry, I asked: "you are afraid to die?" She nodded, I ask again: "you didn't tell you how the students resolve this bad?" She shook her head cry to say: "I is doomed, no way!"

So I do to her testimony, how god save me over the death and became his servant, I now have a new life, the fate of the old in my body has no effect.

When I have finished their testimony, he said to her: "today you have difficulties, only Jesus can solve under heaven, for no other name is given, which we must be saved, and only the Lord of life can give you a new life."
"Do you ever received new life he has given, let the holy spirit to manage your life? Do you have the experience rebirth?" She shook her head. I say: "so, today you are willing to admit own SINS, and received new life to accept Jesus?" She nods joyfully accepted.

Then her mouth prayer, in the presence of the Lord, and he confessed tears made her personal savior, pray for her life, her in Christ become a new creation.

Since then she has changed her life, not only escape unscathed seventeen and married to emigrate, after 20 years till now we are still remain.

You can pray to god and prayer (is) :
"Dear god, thank you will only son, Jesus Christ Jesus - savior Christ - meaning) (the monarchy, and give me for I died on the cross for me, and resurrection. Savior Jesus! I need you, now I open door, accept you as my saviour, o you forgive me in the life of many wrong, many SINS, and bear my old fate brings the curse. Now give me new life and fate, I became the new god's children. In Jesus' name. Amen (amen mean sincerely wish)"

In a bad mood to look at this 20

2010-08-17T02:45:00.000-07:00

1 , not in tears when making any decisions , speak as little as possible , when negative emotions .

2 , do not go thinking the same question repeatedly , do not put all the emotions are on one person , you have parents , a friend .

3, do not be afraid do anything wrong, even if they are wrong, Do not worry , life is wrong on the right or wrong , not to mention many things , back view, right or wrong no longer valid.

4, there are negative emotions is normal, but their must know to understand this is only a small part of life , in the rest of the time , the emotional stability to make up as much as possible .

5, that person suddenly does not contact you, normal ; that person, suddenly they contact you , and also normal , it shows nothing .

6 , if not understand , say so , if get it , they mention , you can smile .

7 , all the troubles are self-inflicted , and therefore only themselves , not to find a friend crying , looking for them to play .

8 , said it must do, even stupid , then again stupid better than acting in bad faith .

9 , no matter how the accident occurred , do not break the law of the original life , to be on time to eat , sleep time .

10, not to be afraid to do something , do not be afraid Chujingshangqing , do not be afraid says the wrong thing , not afraid to think of the past , do not be afraid to face the future .

11 , whether right or wrong, you need to have a standard of conduct you should follow the guidelines , and continuously revised based on the realities of life . Indecisive people back and forth , is not pleasing . in wandering among the people right or wrong , better image to the right people from the wrong front .

12, when he said: "Let's cool for some time? " time to cool with the good , then hang up the phone . Do not cry , he did not come to seek your advice .

13, not to pull out all the words of my heart , these are only part of your wealth .

14 , do not , and a man and his arguments with a circle of people , no matter how reliable you think he has .

15 , when you do not know and he said something, then nothing to say , there are limitless meaning of silence .

16, not the pursuit of what the outcome , each person the same result is death .

17 , do not regret it , no matter what are not to regret , regret feelings than you do to make it even more horrible because it will destroy your self-confidence , self-esteem and is likely to make you a more wrong thing to do .

18, no matter what , have said to myself : This is normal. Not say: how do I so unlucky ? Or : how he like that? Those encountered in earthquake, tsunami 911 , or Indonesia, many people do not have chance to complain . Compared to them, life is normal in some of the twists and turns , and today may be your boyfriend away from you , you will feel is the most miserable person, but do not forget perhaps the world with hundreds of thousands Tongshi Girl and you have the same experience , but you do not know.

19 , do not worry about marry , not because the older a hasty marriage , worried marry than to worry about her husband to divorce derailed , looting property, mini three is better . fear to marry just worried it , in a pleasant yet still had the original Days , you really want to divorce her husband is in real trouble .

20 , we must understand that he has done everything to pursue a state , a self- satisfaction and happiness . Do not be afraid of what this world Kegong afraid of things too much , you are afraid of endless . There are things to solve , solve , then pulled down .

Wronged , he was with me too

2010-08-16T00:00:00.000-07:00

When Joseph was sold into Egypt , when the pain can be extremely lonely , the captain of the guard house of Potiphar , although a master of love , so there are some forces , but his identity has always been just a slave , no freedom , no Friends , no family . At this time, he was trapped he falsely accused her mistress injustice among the locked jail , in the process , even the cries of innocent Joseph never had the chance , because his identity is far too long with the guard was .
This moment the object of Joseph to talk , only God . But God is the most trusted and most in need of Joseph 's friends unjustly aggrieved in this process, God is with Joseph , to accompany him through the painful moments of life . He comforted Joseph , bless the work of his hands , so the prison can have absolute confidence in him , and he 's doing all goes well, this Joseph to the wronged , the quiet ride .
In the journey of life , we may experience innocent time , do not complain immediately sent silently to the God who can understand what you , talk to him , he will be with you over this same time , but when you scrutinize He made all this time , you will surprised how much he loves you so many comfort come to you body .

With the spring breeze, jubilant

2010-08-13T21:52:00.000-07:00

"The heart glad, and smile, he was troubled in spirit, and the spirit is broken." Pro "

Everybody can have pleasant appearance, soft voice, and politeness. These are the ability.

The man looks itself is the mirror of the soul, to others, also observed in them play good or bad the powerful effects.

Whoever has the kind of person's face and sympathy, will the glow of true godliness; And those who are being selfish motives malevolent, but expressed in the face of their heart will carry your cordiality.

Live in the heart of Christ, to make those who love him and keep his commandments, honour the person face to shine. Truth in the face. The kingdom of peace to manifest luscious, Will show a constant gentleness and a superman.

Love can make the person be polite, and with appropriate behavior. Love can make people radiant, voice is soft, Love can make the person becomes elegant noble. Love can make the person with god, because love is the harmony of a kind of virtue.

你，有没有这样的时候?

2010-08-12T20:01:00.000-07:00

你，有没有这样的时候？莫名地心情不好，不想和任何人说话，只想一个人静静地发呆，怀念着逝去的人和事。
你，有没有这样的时候？突然觉得心情烦躁，看什么都觉得不舒服，心里闷得发慌，拼命想寻找一个出口。
你，有没有这样的时候？发现身边的人都不了解自己，面对着身边的人，突然觉得说不出话。
你，有没有这样的时候？突然感觉自己与世界格格不入，你曾经一直坚持的东西一夜之间面目全非。

你，有没有这样的时候？突然很想逃离现在的生活，想不顾一切收拾自己简单的行李去流浪。
你，有没有这样的时候？别人突然对你说：我觉得你变了。然后，自己开始百感交集。
你，有没有这样的时候？突然希望时间为你停下来，就这样一直和喜欢的人地老天荒。

你，有没有这样的时候？在自己脆弱的时候，想一个人躲起来，不愿别人看到自己的伤口。
你，有没有这样的时候？突然很想哭，却难过得哭不出来。
你，有没有这样的时候？夜深人静的时候，突然觉得寂寞深入骨髓。

你，有没有这样的时候？走过熟悉的街角，看到熟悉的背影，突然就想起一个人的脸。
你，有没有这样的时候？明明自己心里有很多话想要说，却不知道怎样表达。
你，有没有这样的时候？心中有一股无名的火，很想找个人发泄，很想大声喊出来。
你，有没有这样的时候？觉得自己其实一无所有，仿佛被世界抛弃。

你，有没有这样的时候？明明自己身边很多朋友，却依然觉得孤单。
你，有没有这样的时候？很想放纵自己，希望自己彻彻底底醉一次。
你，有没有这样的时候？自己的梦想很多，却力不从心。
你，有没有这样的时候？常常找不到事情做，无聊得无所适从。
你，有没有这样的时候？突然找不到自己，把自己弄丢了。

你，有没有这样的时候？心里突然冒出一种“厌倦”的情绪，觉得自己很累很累。
你，有没有这样的时候？看不到自己未来的样子，面对未来，迷茫得不知所措。
你，有没有这样的时候？发现自己一夜之间长大了。
你，有没有这样的时候？听到一首老歌，就突然想起了一个人。

你，有没有这样的时候？希望能找个人好好疼爱自己，渴望一种安全感。
你，有没有这样的时候？别人误解了自己有口无心的一句话，心里郁闷得发慌。
你，有没有这样的时候？常常在回忆里挣扎，有很多过去无法释怀。

你，有没有这样的时候？渴望一场轰轰烈烈的恋爱，很想去做一些疯狂的事。
你，有没有这样的时候？渴望被人理解，渴望别人的关怀，渴望一份简单的快乐。
你，有没有这样的时候？看着时间一点点流逝，自己却无能为力。

……
熟悉的或陌生的你，如果你也有这样的时候，说明你在无奈中一天天成长了。
在无奈中成长起来的，有你，也有我……

Meaning , dignity , ideals

2010-08-11T22:26:00.001-07:00

We always look forward to life more meaningful , more dignified , more ideal . Faith in Christ , so we hope to maintain the heart .

Ephesians 1 16-23

Prayer, often question to you: God of our Lord Jesus Christ, God , glory of the Father, of wisdom and revelation give you the Spirit , so that you may know him . And lighting the eyes of your heart , so that you know he 's calling,What is the hope; he 's inheritance in the saints ,What is the riches of the glory; and know him to us who believeThe obvious ability , how vast. Which he wrought in Christ , the great running strong in him from the dead , told him to his own right hand in heaven , far above all rule and authority, power , and might, and dominion, and all Famous not only present , and even the afterlife are also exceeded. Put all things under his feet have made him the church, head over . The Church is his body , is the fullness of who fills the .

Paul prayed , when he thought of the great God and the grace of the people when the flow was entering the realm of almost seems impossible to terminate the prayer . ... He said excitedly : God calling, what is the hope of people , God will be allocated and what the riches of the glory of industry , people were God 's ability , how vast . ... for the day through many challenges in the faith life of believers , this is a great incentive . ...
Paul breath that the three " what "is on the believer 's calling, God , God left to believers to shape the ability of God appeared to his followers . ... God has given believers the grace of these three areas , but also just to meet the expectations of believers living life . ...
Understand that they are God 's calling, rather than by chance , there is no destination, this world would be more meaningful life . ... looking forward to the kingdom of God has already reserved the industry , it would not because of poor living in this life , hardship and inferiority , loneliness , loss of dignity . ... I believe God gives unlimited capacity , the will be able to face the harsh reality of life and their own weakness , we still maintain the ideals , hopes, will not back down , depressed , hopeless . ...
Faith God would really make people healthier and more active to live . ... While the "God's calling, " is not visible , "God 's possession " non- material in nature, " the power of God "is not to make us live forever , but it gives life, "meaning" , "dignity" and "ideal . " ...
We may know or observe the crowd, found that many people are negative , unhappy life. Some people feel that life is uninteresting, and lost the meaning of life ; others inferiority , jealousy, bitterness or cynical to live , not like himself , have refused to others; there is that life is short , God get people who would not want to own can do to change Status quo , not to think tomorrow will be. ...
And how you and I face every day living for? ... Please stop and think : you are satisfied with their attitude to life, the meaning of life or life goals? ... of life , " meaning " life "dignity" and living the "ideal" three, you are most satisfied with is that one ? ... three of which on the one hand you want to enhance and improve ? ... ...
Your faith in God can help you be more healthy , more active to live . ... Paul for the believers pray that God 's eyes lighting their hearts so that they know the faith of God 's mercy on them just how generous , caring . ... you need that on the one hand for their own life force and pray :
Lord , I welcome you to my calling, please help me enrich my life meaning .
Lord , I hope you set aside the industry , please help me to restore the dignity of my life .
Lord , I believe you would give me ability, please help me rekindle my ideals in life. ...
You may think you know the person , as you know , as they need the strength of one 's life, pray for :
Lord , help the XXX, so he can welcome your calling, to enrich his life meaning .
Lord , help the XXX, so he can look forward to your industry , to restore the dignity of his life .
Lord , help XXX, to enable him to believe that your ability to rekindle his ideals in life. ... ...

What is the time locked up

2010-08-10T19:57:00.001-07:00

I have a lot of very valuable time for things to be locked up
I searched and searched to find the key , but that match is not found
Later I found to be time to lock things up or to wait for time to open
Though there are many issues I do not have to give up
Because God is in my side I fear no one
He gave me great courage to go out I will brave
Since I was sick that day, I burned himself posted his diary , never written on a
Since then I graduated and began my life journey , to a new city --- Beijing
Because of God 's mercy , I discovered that God 's gift to me is --- thanks
So God has given me a very nice voice name ------ Thanksgiving
God, ah ! You know I like fantasy hope that those good things befall them
Why do you give me hope? Give me hope ? Lord ah ! I request you to be able to understand the wishes of your
Do not let me hard waiting ! Really really very tired ah !
I often weak and lonely , and sometimes confused and helpless, can not find a light v. !
Lord ah ! Pray for your 's will look on me completely !

When the heaven , a place only

2010-08-09T20:44:00.000-07:00

One day, a blind man with his guide dog across the street when a truck lost control , ran headlong , blind people were killed on the spot , and his guide dog to guard the master, with the tragic death in car Round bottom .

Owner and the dog went to heaven in front .
They stopped by an angel , embarrassed and said: "I'm sorry , now only a quota of heaven , the two of you must have a go to hell . "
Master one , quickly asked: " My dogs do not know what paradise is , what the hell , can not allow me to decide who goes to heaven? "
Angel of the owner of a despised and looked , frowned , she thought , said: "I'm sorry , sir , every soul is equal , you race to decide who to pass to heaven . "
Master disappointment to ask: " Oh , what game? "
Angel said: "This game is very simple race , from here go to the door of heaven , to reach the destination , and anyone can go to heaven. However, you do not worry , because you are dead , so is no longer blind And soul and body independent of the speed , the more good people simply faster . "
The master thought , agreed.
Angel so that the owner and dog ready to announce start of the race . She fully expected the owner to go to heaven , will do everything forward Ben , Who knows the master is not busy , walked slowly . Angel even more surprised that the piece of search dogs did not run it with the owner of the pace slowly along the side , would not leave the master .
Angel suddenly realized : the original , this guide dogs over the years has developed a habit , always follow the master action in the owner 's front guard him . Owner is abhorrent use of this point, only a well-thought certain to win , as long as the gates of heaven, he called his dog stopped , you can easily win.
Angel looked at the loyalty of the dog , felt very sad , she cried to the dog , said: " You have the main people lost their lives , and now you are no longer the master of the blind , you would not have led him to walk , you Run into the paradise it! "
Nevertheless, both the owner or his dog , have not heard such words of the angel , still slowly moving forward , as if like a walk in the street .
Sure enough, there are a few steps away from the end of the time , the master uttered a password , obedient dog sat down , and day and looked at the use contempt masters .
Then , the master smiled , he looked away to the angels : "I finally sent my dog heaven , and my greatest worry is that it does not want to go to heaven , just with me ... ... so I just want to help It decided to ask you to take care of it. "
Angel stared .
Master bear to watch as his dog , said : " able to decide the game is really great, as long as I let it go forward a few steps , it can be to heaven . but it for me for so many years , This is the first time I can watch it with their own eyes , I could not help but want to slowly , to look at it for a while . If possible , I wish I never watched it go on . But to heaven , that It is the place to go , please take good care of it. "
That said , the master sent to the dog forward command , the dog reaches the finish line in the moment , the master as a feather -like down to the direction of hell . He 's a dog , quickly turned away , chase master bolted .
Angel wings, full of regret chasing the past, want to grab a guide dog , but that is the world's most pure and good soul , a lot faster than almost all the angels heaven .
Therefore, any connection with the master guide dogs together , even in hell , guide dogs are also always be there for its owner .
Angel stood there a long time , murmured : " I started wrong, these two souls are one , they can not be separated ... ... "

After 80, we too realistic

2010-08-08T20:15:00.000-07:00

Dedicated to 86,87,88,89 and 80 years after birth , too realistic , friends, if you are born in these years , I hope you can read this article carefully , you will see a lot of reason

Seems to be helping them , is very specific
Seems very strong , in fact, than anyone else to be vulnerable
Seemed very happy , but behind the smile Who can understand grief ...
In fact, many times
After some 80 people are in self- torture
Obviously love love each other
But would rather die sad Also choose to let go
Then turn left
Free of any tears wanton ...
In fact, many times
After these 80 people who know very well
They are afraid of loneliness
Because when a person
They will be cranky
They will think that the story does not end
Remembered that vague but clear face
Because when a person
They will feel no sense of security
Their requirements are always so low
As long as the person accompanying them love like ...
In fact, many times
After 80 people are sensitive to this type of Are easy to mistrust
A look, a movement
The day will allow them to neurotic
So do not let them scare
Do not let them hurt
In fact, many times
After 80 such people are sad
They are not sentimental
Bale is easily moved by the occasion
After 80 of these people like to use words to inscribe their feelings
This is also a kind of sustenance to their way of ...
In fact, many times
80 people are in this type of contradiction
Continue or be suspended ?
Is to give up or persist ?
They appear to emotional
Often in the last ...
Always make rational control the thinking ...

In fact, many times
This group of people always live in the past
They always casually present life to find some sense of deja vu
Although they themselves agreed to forget the past
But they forget ...
As early as in the past, deep-rooted in the mind ...
In fact, many times
80 feared after this kind of sweet to see other people
Not jealous
Just feel like their own and previous
Then into the memories
To be past the pain awaken their consciousness
Another man slowly licking their wounds ...

In fact, many times
After 80 very dedicated people in this category
Sometimes do not understand what they are holding on
They are expecting that the outcome of the story does not end
Or wait for more damage They are stupid
After 80 people in this category
Too many shortcomings
Temper stinks too much , not only headstrong , and sensitive paranoid
So either do not close them
Or to treat them with sincerity
Because they are very brittle heart
... you can not afford injuries
After 80 we are the fools , the most stupid idiot ...
Do not even know how far the future in the end . . . . .
Whether and how many people in a mobile phone always hang QQ, a bunch of people Juzaiyikuai , one a mobile phone , each plays with
Students meeting the compulsory two projects: a meal , KTV
Children are beginning to call their uncle or aunt of the
Never lonely , whether you are a person alone, or are in the crowd were
Like to sing that song in the same lonely , is one of the carnival , carnival , is a group of people alone
Not so angry youth , and when faced injustice , will tell themselves, society is so
Can not watch TV , but the computer is a necessity
Will go out with three treasures: cell phone , keys, money
Never know where the money is spent , not how to eat , not how to wear
Negative , refuse to grow up . Do not like to be that mature .
The face of an acquaintance , then chatter , before the silent stranger
There must be a hobby is to sleep in
All day long soak in the Internet , do not know what to do .
Most frequent reply was " boring ", even though they spent a lot of time on the network .
Hungry, eat regular breakfast, lunch and eat together
Typing was quite inaccurate , but still played very fast 12:00 ago and rarely sleep
Everything can be " easily " because not that much time , are not worried about so many things
There is no reason not proud of capital , they are fundamentally inferior , definitely looking forward to looking forward to recognition failure when a man is hated even the courage to say no .
Think that other people can not understand themselves and others as a reason for disdain .
Because other people are in love so himself in love, more love , not love is the practice , and then you even begin to suspect the insistence on love .
Once thought that life stay with her friends , one day a month , he suddenly found that they were gone
Woke up at midnight only shocked to discover has always been only by himself
The more growth, more likely alone

After 80 of us , there are many dreams , some realized , some shattered .
After 80 of us , some famous , some unknown .
After 80 of us , struggling through a loss too , or survive.
After 80 of us , taking off her young tender youth , began to meet the community of nations.
We know as much as we have experienced too much .
Have been desperate pursuit , and later became worthless . Parents have been blocking things , until his injury , they would understand , the parents turned out right.
There have been numerous times asked yourself , why live ? Later , have been too lazy to think about the meaning of life .
Love can not Haohao Di had to read .
We hope that after 80 , well-being . Like this article , because she really write a lot of our state of mind , pretend the real vulnerability of the strong