Interpretation of love password, drawing Mate a blueprint

Mate is essentially how to seek the will of God one of the subjects , we can not in great detail speak how to seek God's will . But there is an important principle , that is, if this thing is with the two people related that God will at the same time move two people , not only touched one person. So unilaterally say, "God touched me that you have to marry me, " this is wrong. There is a saying to say, "It is unable to extricate themselves apart from the teeth as well as love . " Get out both sides of , no one own dared to pull their teeth, the person unable to extricate themselves apart from the teeth as well as love , because we are all longing for romantic love .

In this Zuoge game , here are 10 right and wrong questions , you get a piece of paper to see if your answer is yes or no , I read a sentence and then you say phrase words the right or will not , you make a Practice. True Love True or false:
A love at first sight is possible.

Dichotomous variable love and infatuation is not difficult to .
Three really love each other people who do not clash.
four after marriage Relatively easy to change the other .
Five men and women fall in love in a timely issues will not affect their relationship.
Six rather marry the wrong person than not to marry well.
Seven if the two fall in love premarital sex does not matter.
Eight love each other men and women will be able to forever .
nine The honeymoon period of not more than to six months for the best.
Ten young than adults know better true love .

These 10 subjects did not know which you have few is option a few is a choice wrong? I want to publish the answer myself! Answers are all NO, is the right comes to love marriage . that Maybe you heard will say right ah ! there are some I think quite reasonable . It is called paradoxical , so we one by one to share with you explain , if you these answers find out , you will have a correct and healthy marriage .

We mention first is love at first sight is possible, in fact not , the problem that many people naturally say yes. it as the My wife saw I count not first sight do ? Saw each other on the phone , like , of course, possible, but not limited to this point , but also continued to the back of development. Because we are down to the show which will be mentioned, love including the four levels of , a love the flower which includes four petals of , we have at first sight only a passionate love . Is love, not wrong, but only love one of them , like this is not complete enough. Therefore, love at first sight it is possible to , yes, but alone love at first sight is not enough . The correct answer is that , if development the long-term stable , the need for spiritual exchange with the coexistence of a variety of experiences, alone calls and sparks is not enough .

The second false: sub- braid true love and infatuation is not difficult . It is not easy, obsessive that to grab mind some of the features , and then blindly to focus and strengthen the the kind of intense feeling of love ( he was cool , she was very beautiful, her body very well ... ... .) Even if men and women the relations between 【 rival law 】 will not be tolerated the fact that obsessed who he did not care , people obsessed with often their own believe they have found true love, it is not. So to be a good resolution what is love , what is the fascination, the best way is to know what is true love , not that obsessive .

The third false: true love will not clash. This is clearly NO, true love of men and women is hard to avoid conflicts , in fact, conflict is not necessarily a bad thing. as we have Southern California for a long time no earthquakes , geologists on the nervous, if some small earthquakes , they are the happy, because formation have been their the energy of released , and it will not suddenly come to a big earthquake. Conflict is not necessarily a bad thing , the conflict let us know our problems where , on the issue of where the other touchy thing is, I get angry easily things are. Properly resolve conflicts and establish an effective communication mode of is to establish and operate any interpersonal relations very important part of , between men and women communication of course even more so we love is not no conflict, but know how to resolve the conflict.

Fourth, false: after marriage easier to change the other . Too many cases have proved that we want with a marriage to change the other is unrealistic , if even in love both sides are usually more willing to please the other when is not easy to change , until the birthright has been set , that even 【 wishful thinking 】 , So choose the object first determine your whether to accept each other even after marriage is not easy to change the personal characteristics with the behavior, do one consideration, do not think that their marriage I'll slowly change the other , that will be thoroughly disappointed.

Fifth, false: men and women when in love, even if there are problems will not affect the relationship. love when Perhaps some of the problems can temporarily aside , to the marriage , in peace living together , small problems will become intolerable big problem. We have repeatedly stressed in the pre-marriage education with the counseling is unmarried men and women required courses , marriage more than preparation, marriage, less fatigue , is the so-called "prevention is better than cure . " today, There are many marriage problems , is and marriage on both sides not enough understanding , the temerity to marry a close relationship. Premarital counseling is really important , because in pre-marital counseling sessions inside to help the two sides from the various aspects of to know more about the two sides of the strengths , weaknesses, each other's fitness, they will be able to re- think in the end they fit.