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2010年9月24日星期五

The myth of love

In fact, love is not obsessed obsessed permanent . Love is indeed great, but this is just a process. Can not and will not have continuity . To successfully and intimate marriage is not an easy thing to do , you have to make efforts, efforts to maintain your love .

Let me take you back to the original that you just met , you can remember those days? You know , then you have another attraction , causing a spark . The spark sparked your love , your love.

Make your heart love the excitement of endless , candlelight dinners, lots to talk about the sweet , happy laughter , you both are immersed in the love wave peak ! you stick the extreme physical contact . Touch is like an electric shock even as captivating .

Love , you feel you match the right is simply great, love when you can not even speak a few hours , then tired . Do you think you are such a deep mutual understanding of each other , so to understand the mind . Other words have a degree , he was frank to you without reservation .

"I love that dress . "

"Today I am not happy at work . "

"I ran into the shoes of a stone . "

" Rabbit is a cartoon baby in my favorite role . "

Love is really fascinating and exciting, you think he observant , saying the sentence words are on your mind . Although , in fact not the case , but when you are in love , he said a single word is like the real thing .

So the fact that then?

In fact, love is not obsessed obsessed permanent . Love is indeed great, but this is just a process. Can not and will not have continuity . To successfully and intimate marriage is not an easy thing to do , you have to make efforts, efforts to maintain your love .

When in love period, how can you do? The difference between you and the living habits of different speed your crazy , your child has occupied your life. At this point, you must run your marriage. One way to help you well and you communicate with him .

One-way communication

Women can be straightforward , honest and direct way communication method , so that they open their hearts to speak, her husband . One-way communication is that you directly go to your husband , with his brief , tell the truth , with him you feel , think , what happened between you tell him.

With your husband says he does not want to answer . Just ask him to listen ; let him have time to think about what you say , when he was ready, then told him to share with you his response . You finished, stopped , wait do not rush out loud , at least wait five minutes before continuing.

Why? There are two reasons:

1 , a man is not immediately respond . They need time to figure out their feelings on a matter and ideas . If it is about their own problems, they even need more time.

2 , men feel the pressure a woman will always remain silent. When they feel under control , they will to silence against you , so you know you can do nothing to force them to speak up.

One-way communication methods may just do the same . However, common methods used to force a woman he immediately replied, absolutely not work. Try a one-way communication, operating in the heart after your marriage , your love will be wonderful to reproduce , in my experience , which not only makes more profound feelings , and will forever have the love it .

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